what do you guys know about dependent personalities?

Answer 1

Well, the descriptions can vary from mild to extreme. In it's most extreme it is called dependent personality disorder. People who have this disorder show a strong need to be taken care of, marked by excessive separation anxiety, a lack of self esteem, fear of disagreements and a refusal to appreciate competency in themselves even when it is there. Dependent personalities often present a submissive mien, going along with activities that can be humiliating, demeaning or even abusive in order that the approval and emotional support they seek does not disappear. They base their behavior so as not to offend but only please those upon whom they are dependent, fearing abandonment and being alone. This leads to a denial or repudiation of their individuality and in fact precludes them from having a separate identity apart from others. Allowing others to assume responsibilities and decision-making, the dependent personality can blossom socially, displaying tenderness and affection which will meet the approval of most onlookers. However, when the support he or she craves is withdrawn, the dependent personality can become confused, depressed and forlorn.

But that is in it's extreme. Some people have some of these symptoms to a lesser degree, which may make them a dependent personality - just not so extreme that treatment is needed. Hope that helps.

Answer 2

Guys as in men? Or anyone.

Dependent might be caused by a combination of parental upbringing, one's personality and social development, as well as genetic and biological factors. Research has not narrowed down the cause to any factor at this time. We do know, however, that these disorders will most often manifest themselves during increased times of stress and interpersonal difficulties in one's life. Therefore, treatment most often focuses on increasing one's coping mechanisms and interpersonal skills.

I have reacted as dependent and then been able to pull myself back and look at things realistically. I find that it happens to me when I am trying to hard to please someone not worth pleasing.
Last relationship I was in only took two weeks to heal from.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

In the beginning of a relationship it could be fun for a guy to have a needy girl wanting him. Later on it could turn into a clingy psychopath deranged cling.