can a guy secretly be a pedophile if hes the same age as his gf??
he likes to buy me silly things like bunny ears and tiaras. and he always makes me sit on his lap, wear skirts and wants me to put my hair in pigtails. and he bought me finger paint and wanted me to sit on the floor and paint him a picture. and he wouldnt let me wash my hands by myself. he washed them for me. in fact he does a lot for me. i really love him but whats wrong with him? whys he want me to do this stuff? we're both 18. and i am not making this up! i know it sounds odd
maybe he pictures me as a kid or something? from what i said above, should i be worried? like real worried?
2006-11-23 18:10:49 · 13 answers · asked by beemariebee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't think of it that way. Perhaps he like likes to have your company around him. It sounds as if he likes you alot. And as for the fingerpaint and stuff... maybe he just likes to have fun. Many guys are just out there for the sex anyways
2006-11-23 18:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dan T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not so much a Pedophile but more of a Fettish. Actually it sounds a bit kinky the way you put it. I wish my girlfriend would finger pai... alright that's far from the topic. No the point is he probably thinks it's cute in the way a little girl is but to see you doing it's taking a perfectly clean subject and spinning sex into it. So I'd vote his motive is either out of Sex or a way to have fun in a romantic way ... I really should try that fingerpainting with her... But yeah he doesn't sound bad just maybe a bit odd. You do sound like a preety cool girl if you can be cool with his little ... attractions and still love him.
2006-11-23 18:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many things that could be going on here. Maybe he likes role playing, and this is his way of getting you to play along. Maybe he had sexual fantasies as a younger teen and is living them through you. But a pedophile is a person that actually touches and uses a minor for sexual pleasure, so I would not put him in that category,,,,,yet.
2006-11-23 18:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys typically like normal weight girls most, underweight girls are not as hot, chubby girls are okay, and fat girls are blehh. It also depends on your body shape; for example, if a girl is the same height and weight as another girl, but she has better curves, better boobs, and a better *** then she will probably be hotter. People also need to consider that the face is probably the most important factor.
2016-05-22 21:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he thinks you are like a small kid and need to be taken care of. Some guys can be pretty protective about their gals. If you dont like it tell him so and ask him why is he doing such things. Doesent sound like a pedophile but you need to probe deeper best way is to ask him why he does such things.
2006-11-23 18:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend is a freak. Your instincts are correct. If I were your father, brother or a friend & you told me this same thing... I would strongly advise you to find a different boyfriend - right before I went & told the little freak to keep his sick a__ away from you AND the little girls....
2006-11-23 18:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. I think you should talk to him about it. But honestly I would never let a young girl near him, if he's doing as you say.
2006-11-23 18:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants a kid??? im 18 too, and im pregnant, so my bf is trying to get into the whole dad role, so he wont let me do anything, he even tucks me into bed at night!!! lol, but ask him, i dont think its a problem, but it could be....
2006-11-23 18:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by CowBooger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he walks like a duck & quacks like a duck than he is probably
a duck....A pedophile duck....
2006-11-23 18:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty fun. Do you think you're older than you really are?
2006-11-23 18:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋