i really like this girl, but a few days ago, she told me that she didn't like me more than a friend. she said she feels that i like her more than a friend (i do). nd said that it was getting too weird and awkward bcos she was feeling too pressured to set meet-ups and to call me wen i want her to (i always askd her to call me wen we talk on the phone) and she needs her space. (i ddnt mean for her to set all meetins, but she has work, i dnt no wen she's free). then she ended with "c ya around". i made the conclusion that she didn't wanna be friends anymore. we haven't talked since then. so... i sent her 4 emails apologisin for pressuring her and askin her if she still wanted to be friends since "nuthin serious happened between us" (exact words i sent to her) but very lightly (we have only known each other for 1 1/2 months) (we both 17). did i jsut make evrythin worse? will this have creeped her out? ****... i'm really worried for the worst =/ if i did make a big mistake, how can i fix it
2006-11-23 17:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by guy d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she works full time 7 days.
2006-11-23 17:58:31 · update #1
i tried callin her, but she won't pick up... and wen her sister picked up, she said that she was "busy" and i know for a fact that she wasn't (this was b4 all the emails).
2006-11-23 18:00:11 · update #2
If she has chosen to stop talking to you, leave her be.
You will only make her madder by persisting.
Girls hate when guys don't get the hint.
If she is truly friend quality, then she will show that.
But not because your are asking her to be your friend.
Let her miss you.
Don't be afraid to move on.
2006-11-23 18:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds to me like your still pressuring her with all the phone calls and the multiple emails. MY Advise. Give it a couple days. Let her think things through, and then only then.. maybe call her
2006-11-24 02:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to fix things. If there's any chance (and, honestly, I wouldn't hold my breath) you have to let her come to you. Just relax and if you get to spend time with her, enjoy her, don't pressure her. ANd if it is too far gone, you've learned something for the next time, ok?
2006-11-24 01:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you creeped her out. Stop being pushy and see if she'll talk to you later. Wait a week before trying to contact her again.
2006-11-24 02:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Forte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to backoff . it sounds like she really does need the space and you emailing her and calling her isnt helping the situation. just give her time and let her call you.
2006-11-24 02:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by lambskin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about your feelings
2006-11-24 02:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Shammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋