Be brutally honest, please.
I was in a short relationship, and it ended four weeks ago. Now, I don't easily become emotionally attached to people, and I didn't fall head over heels in love with the guy, but I hurt.
I hate feeling this way, and get highly irritated with myself, because I miss him. The fact that I still see him where we study every day doesn't help. We haven't spoken to each other again, but he keeps stealing glances at me, and these days he keeps bumping into me, where as he had never been around before.
After our break-up I dressed up really stylish and sexy, and he kept looking at me, and now he's doing the same thing. I don't know how he does it, he probably isn't even doing it on purpose, but I ache for him.
How could I actually miss one person so much! And when can I stop missing him! Because it hurts.
And if he looks at me, makes sure we get eye-contact, then looks away, what the hell is he doing? Does he enjoy making me squirm?
2006-11-23 17:47:03 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did you guys break up in the first place? If he broke it off and now gives you looks than he is probably insecure and honestly you don't need that type of bf.Be honest to yourself 'cause I don't think u really miss him that much. A short relationship isn't enough to miss someone that much. my advice, DO NOT aproach him first. Ignore everything he does, dress sexy and stylish, keep your chin up and if he's still into you he'll come to you and you'll know he's worth giving another chance. But be carefull the next time, don't get attached. Keep your distance it will make HIM squirm. Good luck...
2006-11-23 19:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by atlantis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be having second thoughts about the break-up. Why not grab the bull by the horns so to speak, and go up to him and ask him what's his case? It may just be your imagination, but what do you have to lose? If he says no, he is not still into you, then it will give you the motivation to get over the jerk and move-on. He could also be a little jealous because you are dressing sexy, and he doesn;t want other guys looking at you. Typical male! He doesn't want you, but he doesn;t want anyone else to have you either.
2006-11-23 18:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either still wants a relationship with you, or he is egotistical and enjoys watching you hurt. Which do you think is in his character? Who broke up with whom?
Are you sure the two of you can't work it out and try again??? It sounds like you still want each other.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-23 17:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still have a strong attraction to him, and him to you. Is there any chance you'll get back together with him? Or can you stay his friend? Why did you break up in the first place?
2006-11-23 17:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long did the to of you date? Did it become a serious relationship? Well what was the reason you split? Need more details.
2006-11-23 17:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i feel u can make go to him directly and speak, for this u need to give up ure ego , any how if ure wave lengths did not match u must not care about whther he is looking or not, know ure inner potential love ure self to love others my friend this is a true fact of life...
2006-11-23 18:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Creative zest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably still into you, or he's noticed that you've been watching him a lot. It's only been four weeks, so just give yourself some time here!
2006-11-23 17:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants you back, if you still love him or care for him, why not give it a try..good luck!!!
2006-11-23 17:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's stealing glances only becos of your dressing,then,its ...well,you know..
2006-11-23 18:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋