i have been seeing this man how has been in the army for over 26 years and he tells me he loves me and dose not want me to give up on him but he pulls away alot after he gets close to me .Dose this have to do with him being in the army and his busy job?
he was marred but he have not been in a realtionship for 6 years.
he keeps coming back to me and its making me crazy because he pulls away
2006-11-23 17:46:56 · 3 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he is not marred ! He was at one time
2006-11-23 17:52:52 · update #1
to the woman how has a husband in the army you can email me fearsoulheart@yahoo.com
2006-11-23 18:27:19 · update #2
he's still married by the sounds of things. why do you feel the need to have an affair with a married man, i dont know but its been too long. and your just kidding yourself if you think he's pulling back cos of busy job!
2006-11-23 17:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is retired from the army, I'm his second wife and I don't know if it's the army or the failed marriage but he was pretty much the same way at first. I really didn't expect our relationship to go anywhere, then all of the sudden he proposes. I just remained patient and gave him his space along with moral support where his career was concerned. What's going on in the world today is very stressful for all of us so I can only imagine what it's like for the people that are getting sent back and forth trying to protect our freedom. You only have to choices, be patient and wait and see how it goes or call it quits. Good luck with whatever decision you make.
I just posted my answer and seen the first answer you got. So I had to come back and edit. PLEASE don't listen to that. I thought that about my husband, but he was so busy with the deployment and the Desert Shield and Desert Storm(late 80's-early 90's) mess that that had to take priority. He is putting himself and his personal life last right now and that's what he has to do in order to do his best at his job. It's not like he's a car salesman or something, our freedom and lively hood rests in his and the other soldiers hands. He's doing what he has to do. You can email me if you like
2006-11-24 01:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's confused because he had a bad experience once and is scared to start another relationship, but yet he wants it because it may change his bad experience to a good one.
if you really like him and don't mind being patient, i suggest you talk to him and get him to open up though he may find it difficult to share too. start slowly too, don't get too touchy unless you know he doesn't mind. you'll have to do the chasing, i'm afraid... do it if you don't mind the risk and feel you want to help him and want to get to his heart in the end... gd luck :)
2006-11-24 02:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋