there is this really hot guy that i have no feelings for but he is really hot, sexy and just gorgeous... he loves me, he told me that... but i don't feel the same way... i just want to fool around with him... should i do it or just pity the guy and back off?
keep in mind that he's extremely hot...
2006-11-23 17:42:23 · 7 answers · asked by ILuvMe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't love him and he knows that... i told him that and he still wants us to be together... i don't want to hurt him and i'm staying away from him... i like him phisically a lot and just as a fling, nothing serious... but he wants a serious realationship...
2006-11-23 18:00:01 · update #1
I mean is it really my fault if he's getting hurt? he knows how i feel about him but still wants me...
2006-11-23 18:01:19 · update #2
wow you jerk!!! lay off you meanie!!! JK
as long as you are at least friendly to him and just friendly It seems like a win win suituation
2006-11-23 18:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by 1-4-all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was honest with you but you just want to use him. I feel sorry for him. And I feel sorry for you that you are letting a good thing pass you by. Why not stick around and let him show you what a good relationship can be? When I first dated my late husband, I was horrified when he told me he loved me. I did NOT want to be in love with him! But, I discovered that sometimes things have a way of working out differently. I realized one day that I was very deeply in love with him. We were married for four years before he died very suddenly. I wouldn't trade that for anything.
But if you really are just fooling around don't hurt the man worse. He doesn't deserve it.
2006-11-23 17:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at it this way...would you want a guy to do that with you?
I mean to tell the truth that would be a terrible thing to do to someone. Does it matter if he is extremely hot or not? You doing that would show you to be a mean ice queen. You would be scum in my opinion. I am not calling you scum unless you act upon what you are saying.
2006-11-23 17:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes really good at fooling around and its not annoying to you then continue on. but if you just arnt feeling it anymore be brutaly honest. maybe ween him off. like if you guys are having sex stop it for now.
2006-11-23 17:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Aryeh C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...if you don't have yet feelings for someone else then i think it's just okay to go on...i mean with your fooling around....you might love him in time,,,you cant be so sure
2006-11-23 17:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by krung2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's called leading someone on.
Sure it will be fun for you, but it will kill him. If you're a selfish, cold hearted person, go right ahead and wait for karma.
2006-11-23 17:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
heck yeah!
Youre lucky!
2006-11-23 17:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋