What is the meaning of VIRGINITY for both men and women??

Question

I am just wondering about personal opinions of both men and women!! tell me what you think about personal virginity and how important it is. Is it important not to have premarital sex, and keep your virginity, or is virginity overrated?

Answer 1

Virginity is important, though others will tell you it isn't.

FACT: People who are virgins when they marry have a much lower divorce rate. People who have premarital sex have a higher divorce rate. People who live together before marriage have the highest divorce rate.

There are spiritual reasons that this happens, but I won't go into it. The facts speak for themselves.

A virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse. Sex of any type (oral, anal, etc.) will have a bad effect on a future relationship.

The research proves what I am saying. Most people in our society will argue the other side. But facts don't lie. People's opinions are just opinions.

If you want a lifetime relationship with someone..... wait.

Best Wishes,

Sue

Answer 2

Many women admire virgin men. There is nothing particularly attractive about a man who's been with lots of women. All women are different. We may differ more from one another than men do. To be honest, it is as flattering for us to be the first as it is for many men to be the first for a virgin girl. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If I woman cannot teach you how things work down there it's because she doesn't know herself, or maybe she'd never been able to get her own things to work, so why on earth would you want to take that one?

Answer 3

there are various levels of virginity, but i would say that the essential one is vaginal or anal penetration. as for its importance, it doesn't matter what other people think... this decision should be only yours to make and its importance will be different for everyone. for me, part of knowing someone is knowing them physically and so i couldn't just marry someone without knowing if i was physically compatible with them. however, i have friends who would strongly disagree, stating that the physical side is secondary and will distort the emotional side of things pre-maritally. the bottom line is that virginity is certainly not overrated if it is important to you. i would say that the fact that your asking others if it is important means that your not ready to have sex, yet. be patient... you'll know when its the right time and try not to let others pressure you into or out of it... it's not their decision to make. good luck.

Answer 4

Losing your virginity: Having anal, oral, vagina intercourse, and engaging in any time of erotic or stimulating activities (generally while naked).

Virginity to me is preferable, and it cuts out a lot of stress and things I don't want (think STDs) in my life. I'm a no premarital person. But it is different for each person, so when dating make sure you know what your partner wants.

Answer 5

virginity means the state of being pure, fresh and unused through abstinence of all the forms of sex.

and my personal opinion? one should remain a virgin until after marriage. i only want to give myself to the guy i will be willing to share with, live with, love with, and quarrel with for the rest of my life :)

Answer 6

it is good to wait, but at the same time I'm not necessarily waiting until I'm married, but rather, I will do it when I meet the right guy who is deserving and that I love. It's personal choice and many of my friends have already done it cannot understand why I'm choosing to wait but I want to give it to someone special. hope that helps!!

Answer 7

It means when you say You love me and you want to spend the rest of you life with me and theres nobody in the world you care for as much as you do for me.

Its for real.