whenever i pick up topic about cybering there will be lot of ppls remarks that we are disgusting,jeaks & cheaters..etc etc...
See from my point of view i dont consider it cheating...
See you maybe cybering with a person in a virtual world whome u will never want to meet in real world...& since u cybering doesnt change your behaviour in real world...
The term cheating is not being true to your partner ...but all couple hide stuff from each other.. so all cheat.
Why dont ppl understand that there is nothing wrong here
2006-11-23 17:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think its cheating as well, we all have our needs and sometimes we can't find anyone so i think cyber is a good thing just don't meet the person in real life sometimes can be a real turn off
2006-11-23 18:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by simplegal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Is masturbating cheating? Cybering is just like masturbating to a movie, or a magazine. I am not sure how it looks in the eyes of God, but it can be forgiven. Dr. Ruth says that masturbation is healthy and good for you. It is only wrong if it interferes with a healthy normal life. So,,, to everyone out there " Play with yourself", in the immortal words of Dr. Ruth.
2006-11-24 01:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you seeking out someone in the cyber world if you have the real thing in real life? What is lacking in your real relationships that these cyber flings seem to satisfy. If your girlfriend was seeking this out, insead of having whatever "need" or "lack" met by you, would you feel good about this? Knowing that you dont do it for her..that she needs to turn to others.....this makes you feel o.k?
2006-11-24 01:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship and you keep it a secret from that person then yes, its cheating. If you are not in a relationship then you can do what you want.
Things you hide from your significant other will come back to haunt you and bite you in the ***. Its better to be above board on everything if you want it to last
2006-11-24 02:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's cheating because even though you're not physically with that person, you're still being sexual with him/her. I doubt you'd enjoy your girlfriend cybering with some random guy and then asking you to do the things he says he'd do to her.
I think it's just weird and gross because you could be talking to anyone...
2006-11-24 01:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Im Cybering with your Girlfriend right Now.
2006-11-24 01:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
EVEN having an emotional affair w/o sex is cheating-hiding sexual stuff is another story- D
2006-11-24 01:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's cheating, just experimenting with each other and gain experience for to make your sex life better...
2006-11-24 01:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by JohnnyC27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship with someone else, yes, it's cheating.
Simple as that.
2006-11-24 01:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's cheating, flesh on flesh, person to person is cheating.
2006-11-24 01:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by smsinga 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋