Why is it so hard to let go?

Question

Ok see i still like my XX- bf and he's so funnie and nice and he can make me laugh so easily! and when i'm sad he makes me happy. Just thinking of him or hearing his voice or a song that reminds me of him it makes me smile. : ) But he called me his best friend : ( i don't know what to do. He's confusing me . At a Dance he danced with me 3 times and he put his head on mine when my head was on his shoulder. Then he invited me to this thing Today. and i'm going but i made sure my friends where going so if it turned out to be something wierd then i wasn't alone. But his x- gf is one of my friends and i told her and she wishes me the best . But people don't realize i never stoped liking him. : ) what do i do : S

Answer 1

I would suggest not getting too attached to him because there is the possibility of him becoming an ex to you. He may confuse you by seeming like he wants to be more to you, and then at times seem like he doesn't.

So, please, for your hearts sake, don't expect that he will like you back. It is difficult I can understand this.

Does he realize that you never stopped like him? I hope so... This is important cause if you feel that way and he doesn't that is not good.

Answer 2

It's a habit. Some loves are like drugs. The only way to quit them is cold turkey and DON'T FALL OFF OF THE WAGON!

Answer 3

If you still have feelings for him have a heart to heart conversation...let him know how u truely feel...you might be surprised and he might feel the same way about you...if he doesnt feel the same for you, well atleast you know and you could try to see him as just a friend.

Answer 4

He's playing with your heart srtings, keeping you dangling so that you always believe that you two might get back together. Don't go to this thing and see what his reaction is!

Answer 5

get over it