I always seem to meet the type of guys that really asren't very good for me. You know what I'm talking about- the comitment phobics, serial flirts, bads boys. I love men but i just never seem to get it right. I need your help!!! What can I do to get it right and find a great guy who isn't just interested in getting in my pants?
2006-11-23 17:32:12 · 16 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lolly..dont give it up too early...and If the guy sticks around and seems to be interested in more than just getting in your pants...its a good sign that you may have found the right guy...But thats not real exciting.... is it?
2006-11-23 17:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by chris f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your approach. Maybe it's the way you dress, or your attitude? Find a good guy in an uncommon place. If you're looking for a guy that's not just interested in getting in your pants, find a guy with a good hobby or a good career.
Date the geek over mr. gq. Haven't you heard the song that goes, "if you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman youre wife so from my personal point of view get an ugly girl to marry you".
Hahaha I think the same principal applies! Hahaha. Good luck ;) .
2006-11-23 17:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be attracted to low self-esteem guys. That usually suggests 'same issues' within yourself.
May I suggest you 'up' your standards then? Date medical students only! By the time you find out if you do..., or don't go for confident, commitment-loving men, smart men, you'll be married to one and be able to laugh at your earlier silliness...
2006-11-23 17:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Number1son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha...I feel your pain. All you can do is keep looking and if you see a pattern appear in a guy you are dating that has spelled trouble in the past...stay away.
Probably the most important thing is learning when it is time to walk away. That's the one I struggle with the most.
2006-11-23 17:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off get to know them before you say yes. Make sure they aren't bad boys. Just mark signs of a bad boy and make sure not to let yourself be asked out by any and if you do say no.
2006-11-23 17:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be single for a while and find happiness in something other than men. That might give you perspective on what you want.
Please do not jump from man to man
2006-11-23 17:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just because you go to the wrong places, dont go to places like nighclubs, paties, bar and other places like that. Go to places where you can find responsible men.
2006-11-23 17:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by fine boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck... a bad habit. You know the problem - take care of business.
No more excuses...
2006-11-23 17:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by stanmanin92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change yourself and the places you are meeting them at.
2006-11-23 17:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider going to places other than bars to pick men up
2006-11-23 17:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by JaneDoe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋