Am I a bad person if lets say I sabotage someone that has hurt me?? Like they hurt me and I want revenge, I know some of you will say Karma and what not... but im so mad and hurt and I want this person to feel the same way, is really that bad to get revenge?? to control that persons destiny??
2006-11-23 17:25:05 · 10 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all at times would like to get revenge so we feel better. The best thing to do is really wait and don't act while your angry , sit it out and let it go for awhile and see if that feeling doesn't just fade away..
2006-11-23 17:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to get revenge only brings you down to that person's level. It won't do a thing for you but give you a terrible reputation with others around you. The best revenge is living well; in other words, to go right on with your life and show the other person he/she did not win. The more you dwell on it the more power that person has over you and are living rent free in your head.
2006-11-24 01:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not bad to get revenge. but controlling another person's destiny? come on pal, u re way over your head now. do not flatter yourself, u will not control anybody's destiny. and it will be very very good if that someone even remembers about your revenge in 2 weeks
2006-11-24 01:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want true revenge you need to be patient. Time is the best revenge. I was ugly. SO UGLY as a teen. I had buck teeth and I was a tall skinny string bean. I got braces and I'm thin and tall and decent looking and it's so nice to walk by people in a store that used to tease me and there they are, FAT, NASTY, COWS! I look them right in their eyes and smile sweetly. When a guy comes up to me in a club and wants to dance who used to tease me, WOW, it feels so good to say hey do you remember me. Time my darling. TIME. Be patient. Go on with your life and one day when you don't expect it you'll see how time is your friend.
2006-11-24 01:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The revenge might feel good now...but in the end its just dragging on the pain even more. Just let it go...its hard but you'll be better off in the end.
2006-11-24 01:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't control their destiny!!!!
I just got hurt by someone, and you know what I do?
I dress so sexy and stylish, that his eyes pop out whenever he sees me. He used to avoid me, right after the break-up, but now he keeps bumping into me everywhere! All of a sudden!
He aches for me, I can see it.
So I let him ache, because I ache just as bad for him, and he's doing nothing to get back together with me.
2006-11-24 01:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've done this before.
it depends on what kind of revenge you are talking about!
if its something that YOU would get caught doing, then DONT do it!! also, if it would hurt the person [physically] then dont...
i know this is bad to encourage you, but i know what you're going through, well at least this situation...if you need to talk AIM- imspecial013
2006-11-24 01:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by jsmonkey013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its Bad and wrong to take revenge.
Revenge makes person think wrong and injustice.
If u want to really punish the person
Forgive the person for what he he/she has done to you.
Instead be good to that person and let them realise that though the person was not good to u, you have been good to them, and they will burn in their own guilt.
Trust me.........
vikram_s_bhatt@yahoo.co.in
2006-11-24 01:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get revenge it will only make you feel worse that you stooped to a level such as theirs!! just move on, grow up and let it go.....karma will get them.. it always does...
2006-11-24 01:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What if they don't react the way you want them to?
2006-11-24 01:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by sheabutterbeauty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋