Is this werid??

Question

ok so i went out with this kid that went 2 a different school as me but i still saw him like everyother weekend. but i did not like the whole long term realtionship thing so i brock up with him even though i still loved him and i told him that but he did not understand. like a week l8er i found out he got another girl friend and he even told me that she was hotter then me(and i have seen pix and she is not) i got really mad and was all yelling at him(even though it was is gf and he should back her up).
so i just stoped talkin 2 him (i still love him).ok now the werid part i went on his myspace and was all reading his comments from her and was checking out her page(as well as his) i am a little jealous!!! i have tryed talkin 2 him about it about he wont listen!!! please help i just cant be missrable anymore and is it werid that i checked out their myspace?? i have also tryed dateing other guys but its just not the same!!!! please help!!! i am so confused?!!

I am still friends with his friends and they say that he still loves me and talkes about me all the time!!! is he trying 2 make me jealous by getting another girlfriend so soon???

Answer 1

He's just doing it because he knows it makes you crazy. The older you get the more you find that some people just do things out of spite and just because they can. Judging by how the question sounds, I'm guessing you are in high school or younger. There will be so many opportunities for to meet people and have good relationships that you don't need to focus so much on one person right now. Be young and enjoy it. You've still got college and trust me, there is way more out there than only what you are giving all your attention to right now. Be strong and good things will come to you.

Answer 2

It's normal to be jealous. You see a guy you cared about dating someone else, thats going to hurt. But you do need to move on. Just because you're jealous doesn't mean he's right for you. He's not, or you wouldn't have broken up with him, and the distance wouldn't have mattered to you.
That problem (the distance) isn't changing, so it's not worth even trying to salvage. Just move on, and yes it will take time and that is ok. You're young, take as much time as you need before you let someone else into your heart.
So what you need to do right now is #1 limit your checks on his myspace. Maybe once a week if you can do it. #2 is go hang out with your friends. Do something fun, anything really so you're not constantly thinking about him. #3 is move on only when you're ready. If you're still thinking about this guy all the time, you're not ready to move on, so of course it won't work with the new guy. In time you'll find you think of him less, then you'll know you're over him. Until then just know you're going through what everyone does and it's ok to be confused.

Answer 3

Zoey,

The critical part of your question.. and also the saddest and most common part is "YOU DIDN'T WANT A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP"

So what did you want??

Are men there for your use??

did you stop to consider he is a human being and is not their purely to accomodate YOUR wants??

I think you should work towards reversing the trend of women loosing all sense of decency and morality.. and perhaps find a guy whom you think you can have a long term relatipnship with.. for good reasons.. like he might be a hard worker.. or have a great career or be special have a big heart.. whatever you relate with.. and stick by him and support each other..

If you're with guys. .coz you look hot and he looks hot and you have hot sex together.. then you're really not worth a cracker nad clearly he left you to find greener pastures and the fact you say his new girl is not hotter than you.. but he claims she is.. goes ot show how materialistic you are in valuing people..

She might have a tonne of morals, values and ethics.. which might impress him.. and hence make her much more appealing than you will ever be with your current attitude..

Answer 4

You don't love him, you love being with him there is a difference! One day you will look back at this situation and laugh! We have all been there! Your youth make's you blind, but that's ok it is a learning experience.As you age you'r eye's will be opend.There are a million boy's out there, look around young one! Enjoy life!!!

Answer 5

I am sorry ,.it's over. Getting over people isn't easy. But you know that it is over when they have moved on , and you are still standing there trying to date people and it just isn't working out. Hoping that he'll realize that he feels the same way you do. They usually never did, they just like the booty we have. or how cute we smile that makes them feel like a bigger person.
Regardless, it's over. Work on things for yourself. Fah get about it.

Answer 6

nope, you should give me your myspace though, 2pts

Answer 7

go get drunk and forget about that guy