this guy and i have had this thing for a while now, and he used to like me (it's basically proven.. i mean big, major signs) but he's really shy and we haven't talked for so long... and i don't know whats going on. i've noticed that whenever he sees me, he gets kind of tense... and kind of freezes up. My friend says he gets really nervous when she says my name. He'll stare and listen to me closely, but when i try to initiate eye contact, he'll turn his head away from me immediately. . . once in a while, he'll keep eye contact for a while, and theres look in his eye that makes me melt... but i don't know what it is. i know it's hard to tell since we haven't talked for so long, but do you think he still has feelings for me?
2006-11-23 17:13:29 · 9 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look...the next time you see him, just walk up and give him a hug. Tell him "Hope you had a nice thanksgiving". If he ask why the hug, say cause I hadn't hug you in a long time and just felt like it. The reason I suggest a hug is that human touch sends many messages. One - we're still OK with each other. Two - You still care for him as a friend and three - Most important, with most people, physical contact breaks ice, lowers anxiety, opens up dialoge. Once you break the ice, you won't be able to shut him up. Tell him how you feel too. Honesty really is the best policy. best of luck. PS = Also, too many people do whay is called mind reading. You don't talk to him - so he thinks you don't like him or even hate him, Thats just an example.
2006-11-23 17:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by aka white knight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah from what you say, i would def think he still has feelings for you. He is exactly what you said..shy. I know this bc when i was younger i remember i was not that shy of a person really but when i really liked someone for some reason i got extremely shy around them and i could not help it. So yeah, th at has to be what it is
2006-11-24 01:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes since it looks like he still likes u. U should ask him on how he feels or get one of you friends to do it for u
2006-11-24 01:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he still has feelings for you. If I were you, since he is so shy, I wld be the more aggressive one and approach him and ask him out..never know what may happen
2006-11-24 01:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Teapot23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes I do. I think that is why he acts weird around you. That or you always have something on your face that is grossing him out. But lets stick with he likes you.
2006-11-24 01:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by i_eated_ur_cookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there's chemistry there.
2006-11-24 01:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! like major! thats so cute! if you like him, you reallly need to just go out! hes just so far into you
2006-11-24 01:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, but its just a personal opinion.
2006-11-24 01:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Maziar S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think... u are not sure that there is something! and u like it !!!!
2006-11-24 01:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by LuTcU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋