i hooked up with a co worker. after IT happened, i played it cool at work the following day like nothing happened. some of our co workers would tease us that we should go out but we both just start to laugh since nobody knew we hooked up. we never talked about it. but somehow after the hook up i started to fall. as i said, i played it cool so no one suspected. sometimes he tries to get me jealous by flirting with other co workers but i usually never react. i do the same but when i do he tries to call my attention like he had something to say. lately i tried avoiding him bec i don't want him to notice, and he looks for ways to get my attention. why is that? is it because he has hooked up with me already? i often hear that once the guy gets sex they would lose interest in that person and everytime he gets the chance he pinches my ***.by the way, before we hooked up i told him that i wanted nothing from him. he's the 1st person i slept w/ who i wasn't involve with & he knows that.
2006-11-23 16:47:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he had lots of experience with other women that's why i thought after the deed we would just lose interest in each other. and before we did it he ask me if it would still be okay for me that we'll still be talking. GUYS, especially PLAYERS (no offense to anyone) would you sleep with just any girl you know or you have to be attracted sexually to all the girls you sleep with?
2006-11-23 17:32:27 · update #1
I hate games, but there is A game that must be played when it comes to relationships, and it sounds like you two are playing it. I'd say he's interested if he's trying to get your attention, pinching your butt, etc. He's flirting and wants to keep you around and interested.
2006-11-23 16:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're using "hooked up" in a slightly unusual way. I thought you meant you got a good friendship going with him, but you apparently mean you and he did the between-the-sheets rhumba.
I've heard that some guys lose interest after they score with a hot babe, but a lot of guys wouldn't. Can't say if you had a misadventure with a sorry scumbag of the first type without knowing more about both of you, but I and a lot of guys I know would be more interested in you than ever unless you were some kind of total loser.
2006-11-24 00:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dick Eney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt lose interest coz i wouldnt hook up with someone i didnt see the potential of a long term thing....
2006-11-24 00:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by freakydude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....one women man ..always and fore-ever..
sounds like your friend is trying to still get your attention...even though ...it sounds he does not see you around much after the
hook-up...
2006-11-24 00:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good lord how many wrong sighnals can you give a man...we are not mind readers...if you like him do something about it...pain is temporary..misery is a chioce
2006-11-24 00:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by mgibson92804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he either really enjoyed it or ur his first.lol
2006-11-24 00:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by iowadude92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋