Alright guys - so I have a school girl crush on my old roommate (i'm not actually a school girl though - i'm in my 20's). Ever since he moved out, we've been talking as friends...and I want to take it to the next level! He's super shy, and never dates. He hasn't asked me out or anything...and I don't know if it's because he's just shy - or if he's actually not interested.
His birthday is Sunday - and I sort of said openly that we should hang out....but I want to know what i should do to make it actually happen!! I sometimes have a problem with being too agressive though...and I don't want to scare him off either!
2006-11-23 16:38:19 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just like any other dating situation you've been in, except this one, it's your roommate. When you hang out, send him some signals that show that you're interested in him, if he responds to those, then you can make your move, but don't be so aggressive though making your move. If he doesn't respond positively, then just move on.
2006-11-23 16:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by mikee5432 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehehehehehe. Here is the answer. When u say u love him he might not respond to ur answer or he might say he loves u 2 if he have the courage.But the most important thing is make him feel comfort when he's with u. Try asking him what part of u does he like and remember to make ur first move to deal with this kind of guy. Little by little he will like u.
I wish u best of luck.
I hate to admit it, i'm also that type of guy too and i hope 1 day there will be a girl comes to comfort me just like u.
2006-11-24 01:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Hilmi O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to keep the situation as comfortable as possible, do not make it like an actual date. He hopefully will eventually tell you or throw a couple hints at you if he likes and wants to take it to another level. Just remain cool, calm, and collective because if you act like your too in to him you may scare him off.
2006-11-24 00:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by NitaBoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Lizzy..!!.. ask him straight faced that you wish to go out with him on a date ...because you like him so.!!.. and why..!!..
if you know his family ..well ... inter twine it together some how..
being his birthday...and going on a date... I'm sure his family might help.. in more ways than you may understand..
2006-11-24 00:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him out to dinner.
Make it a small birthday party and invite one or two of his friends too.
With the others it will be less threatening to him.
2006-11-24 00:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you send him a note or e-mail and ask about him after he gets to know you over internet, tell him who you are! He will then not be shy around you because he knows your personality!
2006-11-24 00:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Clayton Bronson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note and put it in a box and give it to him for his birthday...the note should ask him to meet you somewhere where you can be alone and talk, ie restuarant or cafe. if he meets you then he's interested.
2006-11-24 00:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take him out for his bday, then say something like "we should go to ur place for coffee or a movie" just you 2, then its up to u to make it happen
2006-11-24 00:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him and kiss him... if he goes ewwww then move on... if he kisses you back ... then well well well we gotta winner!!
2006-11-24 00:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋