What should I do?

Question

My dad kinda has a temper problem and when he gets angry he REALLY REALLY gets angry. He's already broken my arm twice and my colarbone in one of his "episodes." I really wanna tell someone but am to scared to say anything. ANd my dad is all i have left. My mom died when I was 4 so this is the way its been for years. I feel like i wear a mask everyday at school because everybody always says I'm lucky to have been born into a rich family and how they wish they had my life. They only see the good side but never the bad side. PLEASE tell me what i should do? I don't wanna hurt my dad.

Answer 1

you need to tell someone you trust like a teacher or a best friend because its only going to get worse..hes already broken your arm and collerbone what next ribs? legs?...it will only get worse...it may hurt your dad but its not fair to you..you shouldnt have to deal with something like that.

Answer 2

You need to get help. I've been there not with my parent's but you need to let some one know be four it's to late. I know you don't want to hurt your dad or to be embraced because of it but he don't care if he's hurting you even if he tells you he is.He's just feeling sorry for him self. Please tell some one you always have someone to take care of you we all feel that way when were your at in life, there's always someone out there for you, a family member. Please let the school know, the pol ease and other people so you have as much pro ff as you need. you might have to let one of the neighbor es know so when it happens again you have some place to go. You can also wait till he's in bed to call someone.

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Answer 3

You need to tell someone for sure. You don't want to hurt your dad, but if you don't tell anyone it will only get worse. You could even start with just telling one of your friends so that you have someone to talk about it with, but then you really need to tell an adult AS SOON AS you can work up the courage to!

Answer 4

Maybe u should tell to someone who could talk to ur dad & arrange for some anger management therapy for ur...
Jus becoz u don't want ur dad to take the pain doesn't mean tat u have take the pain...plz do talk to some1 abt this matter soon..so tat ur dad's temper is controlled and u need not wear tat mask anymore..

Answer 5

you just need to suck it up and tell somebody beacuse if you dont and he continues to do this to you then you won;t be able to see the putcome because you won't be here if he does it bad enough TRUST ME!!!!! I have dealt with this kind of sh** with my mom and father and it only gets WORSE it never will get better no matter how much sh** they try telling they will do or anything else. tell the police anybody in the line of teachers or guidence counselors or somewhere in that line that will be able to help you before it is to late !!!!! You can do it !!! Good Luck & God Bless You

Answer 6

Who treated your broken bones? Doctors need to report this stuff, I dont care how rich you are! You need to tell someone. Have you no other family members who know what's going on?

Answer 7

You need police and therapist intervention, before you get anymore hurt or possible death. This you explained is child abused and it is a serious crime which a lot of people don't tolerate it. Please go get some help before you get more hurt.

Answer 8

call the copsfor what he did i know ita al you have well you have an othert thing your love from ur mom and god socall th ecops about it or some one you trust ,dont be afraid i mean its no tlike hes at school with you.

Answer 9

you need to tell some...

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i will be praying for you and your familly
just hang in there

Answer 10

you had to tell some1 because if you don't he could end up killing you