Me andand my bf have split up due to a 3rd party involvement..he assured me ntg was going on and the lady friend even told me ntg was goin on and that they are just close. However, i decided to end the relationship. He wanted me back and so, he told me he would make it up to me and that he wont hang out with his friend that much anymore. So i agreed and decided to work things out. Next day however, he said he wanted to be just friends to slowly rebuild the trust and what we lost during the 3weeks of fights and anger..I am moving away in 3 months and i feel taking things back to step 1 is pointless. What made him suddenly change his mind from working things out to becoming just friends? We do talk everyday and we text msg too. Yet we do ntg much..i suggested a movie since he is stressed abt work but till now, he hasnt brought up the movie outing..Am i reaching for ntg here? Does me leaving have no effect on him whatsoever?
2006-11-23 16:34:39 · 2 answers · asked by honeyz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think that he would be posting a question about you on this site, or be spending sleepless nights thinking of you? Thank yourself that he is only a bf and not a husband. Move on. Not all men are indecisive but if given chances and made to feel like spoilt little brats they tend to act up. Show him your strength and you make the decision now to leave him for good.
2006-11-23 22:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're moving away in 3 months, why go through all the drama of reconciling now? Unless of course you plan to continue the relationship after you move - course his "friend" will still be here.
Why not work on growing, and enjoying life before you move. Become a more independent person that doesn't have to rely on a bf as an emotional crutch?
Feed your own ego through some personal growth. Have fun now, but don't make commttments that will tear you up when you move.
Good luck.
2006-11-24 00:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋