2006-11-23 16:32:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe it or not, girls who make us laugh is one of the most attractive traits sometimes. Just be yourself, and whatever comes out comes out. Don't try to impress us, we already notice you for who you are. And honestly, we don't remember half the stuff we hear 5 seconds after we hear it - so its like a fresh start for you every time!
2006-11-23 16:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by CJ Major 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I may not be a guy but I can help you out on that question cause I was the same way up until I found mister right think of him as a good friend and just be yourself that is what I did
2006-11-24 00:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by foxylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally normal! You get shy because you like the guy. I usually stutter which is worse! but hey, its perfectly normal..what you could do is try to RELAX. The guy wont bite you..and before you talk to him, decide on a relevant topic..like if he likes to skateboard..play video games..etc, start off a convo on that and the convo will be easy and breezy from there..have more self confidence..because that will shine thru and attract him even more!!Good luck!
2006-11-24 00:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by honeyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thinking too much of how he thinks about you and trying to focus on the perfect thing to say. Be yourself. The same you that you are when you're with your fam or your best friends. Guys admire girls who are genuine and stay true to who they are. Also, guys are human just like you. He's not expecting you to be perfect, he isn't..nobody is for that matter. Chances are if he's talking to you he's interested to some degree, believe that and relax...gosh.
2006-11-24 00:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you should write down some good things to say ones you think off ones you heard other people say learn them of by heart and stick to those questions or sayings that you learnt practise this for a while and soon it will become natural .
2006-11-24 00:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are trying to do is impress the guy, unfortunately, you are not being yourself when you do it. what you have to do is relax, get comfortable, and start with something nice and easy like "hi, nice day isnt it" or, something that would show u have interest in him like "hey weren't you in wedding crashers, i swear i saw someone justl ike you" something of that sort, itll help strike up a conversation
2006-11-24 00:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you have low-self-esteem issues along with no confidence in yourself. you should work these out before you try to "talk" to a guy or girl for that matter if youre into that. take care and good luck. there are no stupid questions or answers. only misinformation.
2006-11-24 00:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well we can tell when u do, so either talk on the internet. But for the most part the guy will be nervous to
2006-11-24 00:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by iowadude92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we all have been there.../life is not scripted ..if it was then we would know what would happen next..i most of the time think 3 sentences ahead...usually comes out pretty good
2006-11-24 00:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by mgibson92804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cool cus now they will never forget you... i mean they will laugh with you and at you which is cool and it calms them down that your knocking off and everyone there will have a better time rather than being all tensed up and nervous.....now everyone can laugh and chill
2006-11-24 00:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋