ok there is this guy i lyk and he likes me we both like eachother alot over the past few weeks we havent been talkin like we used to. y is this? (and what are interesting things to talk about with a boyfriend?)
2006-11-23 16:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by cute_lil_surfer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we used to have so much fun together and now that we both like eachother and we know it . We are all serious about it .
2006-11-23 16:31:59 · update #1
I take it that you and your boyfriend are young (under 25). Get him to talk about himself and his interests and do not butt in with your own stories. Men also like women who are confident and have a lot of self-esteem and know who they are and what they want. Men also like women with a little mystery about them - so keep some of your life and doings quiet - hint but never tell! It is part of the allure we can have on a guy. Plus - if he really isn't into you - then find someone who is.
2006-11-23 16:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is losing interest in you... if you talk about the same things every time you talk to him, that will eventually happen, or he just loses interest as he starts to get to know you more and realizes you aren't really his type. Just try talking to him.. bring up the question as to why you and him dont talk much... just relax though and dont sound crazy or obsessive.
2006-11-24 00:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is because neither of you know what to do about the situation. So instead you both avoid being uncomfortable. I think you should make a move, I'm sure if he really likes you then he will say yes.
2006-11-24 00:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by i_eated_ur_cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear cute_surf:
I can understand your problem. What I would suggest is have sit down talk with him. He will try to resist this but its important. Sit down and talk find out what he likes to do hopefully he will ask you the same. Any relationship has to be built on communication.
2006-11-24 00:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by c_shappley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Law od diminishing return applies every where.
2006-11-24 00:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and do more actives then you will have more to talk about.
2006-11-24 00:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk about wateva you feel like it doesnt really matter
2006-11-24 00:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything that comes in mind
2006-11-24 00:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by yukmouth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋