Well, my mom died less that 11 monthes ago and she divorced my dad when i wuz only 4 years old i am now 10
i just am so upset she had anorexia, bullimia, and she drank alcohol constantly. imagine your mother your own flesh and blood who took care of you for as long as you can remember just suddenly gone oh ant to make it worse she died 2 days befor my b'day and h funeral was on my b'day i just cant get over this pain. help me
2006-11-23 16:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by killerqueen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Turn to God. I also lost my father at age 10. I am now 30. It hurts but God can turn any sadness to joy. I know this because 4 years ago I also lost my first born. God has a reason for everything and even though we may not agree or like it he will make good come from it. My suggestion to you is to turn it over to God. He is the only one that completely understands how you feel and he is the only one that knows exactly what you need. I hope this helps, even if just a little.
God Bless.
2006-11-23 16:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by fdmedic84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is someone in your family or at school that you trust to talk to, please do it quickly. Confide in someone and you can lean on them. I am sorry you lost your mom, that must be terribly difficult...but you are strong and you can handle this. Maybe you can look into local support groups for kids, and be able to talk to other kids who are going through the same thing. Time will heal the wounds but you will never completely get over losing a parent. You will see this will get easier for you in the future it just takes time. Good luck and God Bless
2006-11-24 00:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry about your mom, i lost my mom when i was 11 years old and it was so very devasting for me when i lost her. i was very angry at GOD when she died, my life was never the same, i would cry for her for years. i hated my life without my mom, i went wild during my teen years and became pregnant at the age of 16. my mom got admitted into the hospital on Xmas day and died the next day. as for the pain only time will heal. take good care of yourself, don't get into the mess i got into, think positive even though at times it's difficult. do you have a reliable person you can talk to like your teacher, counselor or relatives. good luck.
ask to see a psychiatrist or a therapist
2006-11-24 02:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by prettypueo1812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I understand. Time has a way of making things like that less painful. So, who do you live with now? Focus on that. But also, you can create a beautiful scrapbook with lovely decorative backgrounds and include pictures of your mother, Dad and you having wonderful times. Keep it happy, bright and even funny.
2006-11-24 00:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw sweetie i am so sorry. I would tell u that in time it gets better but i don't know how it can. It's like this empty space that fills ur heart. All i can tell u is that she is in a better place now, and i'm sure she loves u. Do positive things with ur life. Everytime ur tempted to be bad think about her. Make her proud, becuz remember, ur mom is watching u from heaven!
2006-11-24 00:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by prettygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I am sorry for your loss then second of all the best thing for you to do is talk to a councilor at your school and see if they can help you out with some of your problems and also see if your father is willing to help out so you can set down and tell him what is on you little mind
2006-11-24 00:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by foxylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well inside thet is one thing you should remember she is wathching over you from wherever she is and she is proably wanting you to be happy i know it is not easy to lose a loved one but it's good to know that now she is in a better place and theother good thing to remember is that one day you will see her again
2006-11-24 11:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your loss, and I suggest you see a therapist who who may be able to lead you to someone who can help you or they may able to help you. It will take time to heal from your loss, and they will help along with your process.
2006-11-24 00:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad ,and on your first decade of life,well i just think of teh good times with her and rralize that shes dead and theres nothing i can do about it, and an other thing you just cant go through life sobbing ,you just got to selfrelize things that are inportant in life.
2006-11-24 02:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time and good memories will make you go on looking for happiness
2006-11-24 00:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋