So theres this guy who I'm totally in love with. He has a different kind of personality and he's just not one of "those" guys, from what it seems. I don't talk to him at school, but I talk to him when I can online. I know a lot of things about him, and he knows a lot about me. The problem is he likes this one girl which he is totally head over heals with, and it really hurts me inside when he talks about her. I'm pretty sure she likes him, but the thing is, they're not going out or anything. I know what he see's in her, but the thing is I don't think he see's anything in me, like who I truely am. I know he knows who I truely am, but I don't think he sees it.
He sometimes gets me mad with some of the things he says, but that's just his personality (not that he's likes getting me mad or anything) but he just has a really strong mind
What do I do with him? Should I continue talking to him? Should I tell him how I really feel? What do I say when he starts talking about her?
2006-11-23 16:24:55 · 12 answers · asked by Life in Motion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG i totally know what your going through. yes! keep talking too him. no, dont tell him how you feel, atleast not yet. whenn he keeps talking about "her" just listen too him. even tho i know it kills you inside just keep listiening to him. help him out. and in return he may notice how sweet and caring you are just for listening. thats when you tell him how you feel. when hes not talking about "her" as much,
hope this helps a little, good luck!!
2006-11-23 16:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just say, "Hey Joe, I have a great time talking with you, but would you please not talk about Veronica when we're having a conversation?" If being around him while he's interested in her still hurts, then you have to decide whether the fun is worth the bad. There's no right answer, no matter what anyone else says, it's up to you. Been there. Felt that. Said that. everything worked out okay :)
2006-11-23 16:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by rollo1603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could sell off him asap. If he likes yet another female and he or she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? true love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, it extremely is dedicated and problematical paintings. you may see this as a crimson flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you may no longer additionally be thinking a extreme relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have relaxing, do no longer substitute into overly invested in this, WHAT? you won't be able to flirt? circulate on, the writing is on the wall and it spells difficulty. Do your self a choose and shrink the guy loose, in spite of if it extremely is destined to be, it extremely is going to run it extremely is direction and he would be back. yet why you may take him back only you are able to answer.
2016-11-26 19:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not like I know much about these kinds of things, but i might guess that he thinks of you as a buddy. If this is totally wrong, i am sorry.
When he starts talking about her i would kindly mention that you are not comfortable talking about her, if he asks why, tell him that you said it makes you uncomfortable and you would like it if he dropped the subect, nicely so he doesn't get mad at you. That could make him mad. Good Luck
2006-11-23 16:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by newsies62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds all too familiar, I am going through the same thing with this long distance friend I have and he always talks about this x of his that he says he still loves. It is hard to give up on him but I think thats what I should do and You should do Yourself the favor also.
2006-11-23 16:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by BB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember, dating on line is different than real life.
Much like TV families verse your own…they are totally different!
If he cares this much for the other girl, then you are wasting our time and energy.
Are you over 18? Then try www.plentyoffish.com
2006-11-23 16:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... Find someone who sees something in you...someone who likes YOU and is into you. If this guy doen't see anything in you then it was not ment to be and it's not worth it worring about him. There are so many other guys out there.
2006-11-23 16:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Day.!!.. do y u really Love...this guy..!!...
When you talk to him on line...ask him what he see's in her..but not you..!!.. see what is similiar ..and what you can change about yourself..to be noticed..
even though you both know about each other's traits..
then maybe tell him how you feel..or ask him out on a date....good to catch him off-guard....might say yepper ..for sure.
when he starts talking about "HER".. just smile.!!..
2006-11-23 16:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look for some one else, move on. i do not see why you have to go through all of this, you do not force relationships just go with the flow
2006-11-23 16:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by el sabio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think u should move on. U can do better, if he doesn't like u he's not worth it.
2006-11-23 16:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by prettygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋