We went to the same elementry school for 7 years and I developed a crush on him somewhere around fourth grade. I expected it to go away as all my other crushes have, but it won't. I am now nearly a freshman and I still feel, for lack of better words, warm and fuzzy around him. Whenever I try not to think about him I do, and I always blush when my mom and aunt tell me how hot they think he is. Of course I agree, but I never say so, unlesss with sarcasm. I have never felt about anyone else the way i feel about him. I can go play basketball with him and goof around with him, and be perfectly normal. I also like this guy named Justin, but only when he's not around his friends. Who should I like?
2006-11-23 16:18:46 · 3 answers · asked by blondywithabrain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay just friends and it'll most likely lead to more or u could make the 1st move and tell him u want to be more than friends but that might mess up the friendship -c how things go if he likes you he'll make a move
2006-11-23 16:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a stalker. You've been holding onto these feelings for way too long. He's a human being just like you and you have to take the chance and let him know how you feel, straight up. The best case the feeling is mutual and he's just as shy, worst case he doesn't share the same feelings, rejects you and dismantles the friendship. But you'll never know if you won't try. BUT I can't help but think if he wanted you he would've already made the first move. Guys doesn't usually sleep on what they want and they are used to rejection more so than females and more apt to take chances because they don't wear their hearts on their sleeves. You're young just live. Don't worry too much about relationships or anything for that matter you'll only regret. I think it would easier just to maintain the friendships. Friendships are permanent while girlfriends and boyfriends come and go. Friendships are more valuable and dependable. Let the guys come to you, they prefer it that way.
2006-11-24 00:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhh, definitely act on that first guy who've you known forever. DO NOT let him slip away from you, ever. It's better to act and know what would have happened than to never act at all.
2006-11-24 00:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Reina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋