If you're a kid, would you spank your kids?
2006-11-23 15:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by Skittles-Dark Edition 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I believe in them but there are rules to them. Never ever do it when you are mad at them. When they are young and the keep on repeating there mistakes, or when you have gave them warning about some thing they are doing at school or with a friend and they come back home doing the same thing you warn them about .
I told me son that if he was to get into trouble again at school that he will get a spanking and I said do I make myself clear well guess what 2 day later he was worried and he wasn't talking at all and so he showed me what he was worried about he had to eat his lunch with the teacher and she wrote a big letter to me well after that night he didn't have anymore trouble from school.
now he is well to old for it and there are other things you can do to get them to understand He is 12 and like his TV, PSP, PS2, and so on.
2006-11-23 16:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Spanking is NOT child abuse BEATING and PUNCHING ARE. This is the only quote from the bible that I will EVER use "Spare the rod and spoil the child." I was spanked when I was younger.. i was punished also, and im 19 so I still remember most of it quite vividly. And have a best friend whos 30 and has a 11 year old spoiled *** rotten little daughter because she never got a little spanking when she does wrong. Spanking is not threatning a child with a whipping its actually doing it. Not to the point of TOTAL breakdown but to a point where their mind registers "HEY if i do something wrong its gonna hurt." This is simple psychology and has been performed in RATS as well as humans. Looking back upon when I was younger Yes i did deserve spankings and many times punishment involved spanking AND things being taken away. usually it ALWAYS involved the both. The WORST things that parents do nowadays is not spank their kids in public 1. it embarrasses the child 2. it makes the realize that you are in control of them and 3. It shows them that they do not own you. and another thing parents do wrong is when then punish a child they dont follow up.. oh and the worst punishment is "go to your room" kids HAVEN is their rooms. Think when they are mad @ you... they go 2 their room and slam the door. Best thing to do is tell them they CANT go in their room. As well as cut of what they like. If they are a computer person NO ELECTRONICS if they more athletic no going outside or tv make them read a book or something.
2006-11-23 22:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in them. I got spanked when i was younger and I turned out fine. The only thing I'm going to do differently is I plan to include other forms of disipline.
2006-11-23 17:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by intangible_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not spank because i actually do not see the way it makes any experience in any respect. We educate our youthful ones now to not hit yet we punish them by hitting? And its ok we accomplish that purely because we are older and the father and mother? So what? I firmly remember on case you pick respect on your children you want to provide them respect. Spanking is disrespectful, degrading and ineffective. maximum youthful ones i comprehend who get spanked or adults who were spanked were spanked commonly. Why? because it doesn't artwork. of direction they did not learn mush in the adventure that they comprehend misbehaving equals a spank yet they misbehave in any case. i became by no ability spanked as a baby. Ever. And surely...i became extra properly behaved then my brother who became spanked on very uncommon events.
2016-11-29 10:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u get results sometimes but not always. Also in the end it creates more problems. Every parent that hits their kids has kids that wants to hit them back. some do. the rest would if they weren't afraid. a scared child will not be successful in life.
2006-11-23 16:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by sweetmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom NEVER spanked me she always got her point across to me. I don't think you need to spank your kids.. just be stern with your rules.
If they aren't following rules then put them in "time out".. or don't let 'em play with w/e it is you know they don't wanna give up! Say what you mean and mean what you say!
2006-11-23 16:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have gently but it really doesn't working. Taking away toys or things that are fun for them tv going out stuff like that works much better. You gotta say what u mean and back it up. Don't let give up too quick and give in. If you say no mean it!
2006-11-23 16:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i would want to teach them that vilonce is ok
but i dont
2006-11-23 16:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋