he didn't get me a bday present( all i wanted was for him to clean the house)....today is my 29th and he offers me 50bucks for a gift in front of my father- i didn't take it cuz we spend our money together on all the bills..........i just want him to see that the point is that....it's my birthday and i want to know that he cares more on this day:(
2006-11-23 15:40:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO KEEPIN IT REAL
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
JUST BE GLAD YOU COULDNT HEAR ME :)
2006-11-23 15:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i would be mad too. Is he a boyfriend or a husband? We need more details here to answer your question. Honestly i would say withhold sex. He probally will try maybe to get some and you could be dressed in really nice undergarments and then not give in? What do you think? I would probally say hey whats up its my bday? What happened why didnt' u buy me present. That would honestly hurt my feelings. If he is ur boyfriend i would call up the girls and go out and have a goodnight at the club. If he is ur husband u need to tell him and try the sex thing lol.
2006-11-23 23:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think getting even is the answer... If you care about him (and you obviously do), then let him know privately (not in front of anyone else like your father) that he hurt your feelings. Sit down and talk to him, don't yell at him. If he really understands, and you can put it in a way to explain to him that if it were him, and he were in your shoes, that sometimes is the best way to make a guy understand something...
Good luck to you, and happy birthday!!
2006-11-23 23:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by veggiechick2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
29, downhill, almost 30, then 31,32,33,34
Okay, so what I am about to turn *1, anyheeew,
Let that loser go. If he cant show you love on this one day, I doubt he does it on all the other days of the year, let him go. Where's the spunk? It sounds like being with him on any level is stressful to you. Get your girls together and hang out for a bit. Dont let him keep dragging you down.
2006-11-23 23:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Not In Kansas? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is a boyfriend its time to dump him.
If he is a husband I would have taken the money and gotten something nice for myself. I would also go on strike and not clean up his mess. I would pick up after myself and do my own dishes, but I would leave his mess for him to deal with. If anyone comes over and sees the mess just explain it is his mess not yours.
2006-11-23 23:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband did the same thing to me. I just waited till it was his birthday and totally ruined it. Eye for an eye thats what i say
2006-11-23 23:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by chenelle o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have taken the $50 and hired a house keeper for the day,,, sorry your b'day sucked!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
2006-11-23 23:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get even and make a loint is to take a dump in the shower. I think he will get the message sooner or later.
2006-11-23 23:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by fnqbigboy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
BRUSH YOUR DOGS OR CATS TEETH WITH HIS TOOTHBRUSH AND REPLACE IT BEFORE HE GETS HOME. THEN GO ONLINE AND ENTER HIS NAME AND ADDRESS,... ON A STD WEBSITE,... WHEN YOU RECIEVE CONFRONT HIM ABOUT IT LOL
2006-11-24 00:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Photographer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. find someone who cares what you want
2006-11-23 23:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by bored 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋