I do all of the calling now with my boyfriend. Before he did most of the calling, but we talked about it and I am not doing my fair share (I originally didn't call as much because I have traditionally thought guys should call, but we worked it out). But now...apparently we had a miscommunication and he thought we were broken up for awhile...ever since then he is not doing any work as far as the relationship is concerned, but he says he still loves me and wants to be with me...
I don't know how to handle this because I do see his side since he thought that I broke up with him...Even when I told him to call me sometimes he hasn't though...What to do?
Drama, I know.
2006-11-23 15:39:54 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-23 15:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id let him wonder what Im doing.Then see where it goes from there.
2006-11-23 15:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is only playing with u
2006-11-23 16:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by aju a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋