You don't, and I don't think really ever will know, at least for a while. I think a person can be in a relationship, and have this happen and survive if they want the relationship still... Also, did he tell you, or was he caught? If he told he, he must be willing to try. If he told you, I would say to give him another chance, but make him earn your trust again.... If you feel he deserves another try, and it sounds like by your question, you would like to... Good luck to you..
2006-11-23 15:37:19
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answered by veggiechick2000 2
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If he did it once, its in the blood. Some guys respect the other person when they are in a realtionship and wont ever cheat on their partner and some guys are dogs plain and simple. If you arent happen in a relationship, be it the boy or girl, then you should just end it and not cheat on them.
2006-11-23 23:45:49
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answered by Thumper 5
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You don't. If he cheated once, he will cheat again and again because he thinks he can get away with it.
If you dump him, you can dump him secure in the knowledge that he will probably cheat on his new girlfriend as well. True, she doesn't deserve it either, but that's how it is with a guy who cheats.
2006-11-23 23:37:11
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answered by lyoskowitz 4
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If he is thinking properly and working and also having a good romance (which makes you feel comfortable when you stay with him and feels like someone is there to care for and also if you feel you can't live without him, and finally if you feel tt there is someone who will really listen to me no matter what ever obstacle come across both of us[you & your lover]) then it means he is not cheating but really really loves you.
2006-11-23 23:48:00
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answered by Hugo Afkhar 3
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basically if he still does everything he did while he was cheating. if not then he might have changed. if his attitude and attention is still the same then its either a hit or miss of his cheating side.
2006-11-23 23:35:57
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answered by goFish 1
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Trust and communication, but once he did it once don't think he won't do it again. He's not sorry for doing it, he's sorry he got caught. He's a looser, plenty of fish in the sea, you are to good to be played like that.
2006-11-23 23:36:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Men are wondering nomads. We are never faithful. It's in our nature. Listen to the Tom Leykis show. You can find him on the web. You will learn a lot about men. Good luck!
2006-11-23 23:40:40
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answered by Anonymous
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i always say once a cheater always a cheater. men love sex and if the right time, place, and woman are there, then he will cheat.
2006-11-23 23:36:17
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answered by islylovechicken 1
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You don't. Just like you expected him to be faithful the first time you trusted him.
2006-11-23 23:36:50
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answered by Anonymous
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He will cheat again.
2006-11-23 23:41:41
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answered by MJG 1
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