Im not really into church even though I was raised Christian. During thanksgiving dinner, my aunt kept telling me to come to their church because you can meet "good" women there. Im not religious at all so I would probably fall asleep during sermon. Should I go to meet women or am I better off not going at all?
2006-11-23 15:23:57 · 17 answers · asked by juju 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
the way you are describing it yes. a good christian woman deserves a good christian man...dont look for one until you meet the bill
2006-11-23 15:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Robert K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chruch is a very good place to meet the man or woman that you will spend the rest of your life with. But only if you share that person's belief. If going to a bar every night is your idea of a good time, then that is where you should look. The idea is to find someone compatable with yourself.
Maybe your aunt is using a carrot to get you into the church, and the minister will do the rest.
2006-11-23 15:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are better off not going. You need to meet women that you have something in common with. If you base a relationship on church and don't really like it - what basis is there for the relationship when you stop going later?
I think that you should follow whatever path you feel is right for you and find a mate in another manner.
2006-11-23 15:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mark W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not religious, why would you want to meet women who are? It would be a significant thing that you don't have in common, so ....
There's nothing wrong with people meeting members of the opposite sex in church -- provided they're not going to church primarily for that reason.
If someone goes to church and just happens to meet with their "significant other," that's all well and good -- but church should always be about worshipping God.
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2006-11-23 15:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it is not right in itself to go to Church only to meet women... We go to Church to have a real relationship with the living God.... Christ.
We also meet the other members of God's people in the Church, so it is not wrong if you want to meet new people and interact with others.....
You might even begin to find the sermons interesting and it'll give you something to discuss with the people you meet after the servce. So go ahead and participate!
2006-11-23 15:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Carla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being raised in a Christian household doesn't make you a good choice for a woman in the church if you're not a Christian now. If the women are bible believing Christians, they wouldn't have a relationship with you because the possibility of being unevenly yoked would be very high.
Please remember though, not all people inside the church building are Christians.
2006-11-23 15:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by gachickinaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off not going at all. Even if you do meet a beautiful woman, she will be a religious believer in Christ and You will probably not like her religiousity. Think! Everyday, you two will be arguing over this issue or that. If you plan on staying non-religious with a woman without having to fight over it, then you should look for a woman somewhere else.
2006-11-23 15:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sapphire-by-the-sea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I was pretty much wandering through life when I met my wife. We were both Christians but she definitely had a deeper faith than I. She was exactly what I needed. Made my life so much better.
BUT, don't hide who you really are. You owe it to any woman you meet to be honest with who you are. That pertains to everything not just religion. How unhappy would you and she be 5 years down the road if she thought you were something you aren't and your relationship ends because of your dishonesty.
2006-11-23 15:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by yagman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet, your Aunt knows exactly what she is talking about. What do you think those women are all praying for. But be careful, being in church is awfully close to the Altar and wedding aisle.
2006-11-23 15:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Barabas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey i have to say no because thats not what you are supposed to go to church for. I respect the fact that you asked that shows that you have respect. God is to be respected and not used just to meet women. But i urge you to go to seek God and he will place the right woman in your life. Gob bless you.
2006-11-23 15:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by naomihank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your going to meet women your going for the wrong reasons
2006-11-23 15:27:21 · answer #11 · answered by spanky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋