This girl and i were working toward a relationship. For bout a month we have gone out with friends and stuff. Her friend set it up because she likes me. We went on a double date and just went on a solo. Things were good. We are in college by the way. She just told me she doesn't want a relationship right now and not sure when, could be in a few months maybe. I asked and she said i would be the first she would start one with. If i really want her which i do i should wait and go get her right?
2006-11-23 15:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope - don't wait. She just did the "let you down easy" thing. I'm sorry to tell ya, honey. If she was going to be ready for you later she would be ready now.
2006-11-23 15:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly care about this girl, then wait for her. Be her friend and don't do anything that would even suggest that you want anything more than friendship.
But, if at any time she expresses that she wants to see other men, then move on. Sometimes women use the "let's be friends" line to let a guy down "nicely". But without me knowing this girl personally, I can't tell if that's what she is doing. She may just be going through some personal issues and may not wanting to be serious with anyone right now.
2006-11-23 23:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she isn't ready for a relationship. Just be her friend. Don't pressure her about having a relationship. There is no reason why you couldn't go out just as friends. Get to know her better. Show her you care.
2006-11-23 23:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like her then shes worth waitin 4. just respect the fact that shes not ready and just be her friend. get to know her. the more u get to know her the more of a chance she will be ready 4 a relationship with u.
2006-11-23 23:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Teesa F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, definitely wait. Always be supportive and likeable when she comes to you, but never act boyfriendish or try to initiate a deeper relationship. If you're there steadily as her friend, you will STILL be there when she finally decides to date. Push things now, and she'll push you away.
2006-11-23 23:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about just be a friend --- talk to her listen to her --- support her and maybe before you know it you will be in a relationship
2006-11-23 23:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her you should wait ,she might be facing some personal problems.at the same time just make sure she knows you still like her .
2006-11-24 08:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by jane24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes unless someone else comes along..
You know what they say; you snooze you lose.
Good Luck
2006-11-23 23:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i would wait for her if u really liked her you will understand her
2006-11-23 23:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by brooke j. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u see her
just smack a kiss on her!
2006-11-23 23:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Phillip B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋