I met a guy last Thursday. It was like love at first sight. I spent 24 hr with him during the week end. It was awesome, he kept telling me on we were the same etc...That was Sunday afternoon.
The good thing is when I left Sunday night he asked me when he was going to see me again and we talked about on Wednesday night. As I was missing him, I left him a message on Tuesday and Wed morning, then I sent him an email (on Match.com). He replied to cancel Wednesday night date and asked me how was my schedule for next week. He never called me but he desactivated his profile from Match, I had just reactivated mine because I was pissed. The next he reactivated his...What does this mean? I have not replied to his mail yet. I am really into him and I want him to feel the same. What shall I do? I need a good strategy because I am LOST.
2006-11-23 15:19:29 · 13 answers · asked by Frenchie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make it clear that you're interested in him, and hope for the best.
2006-11-23 15:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when are you ladies going to learn. Most married men looking for a quick fling hang out on sites like Match.com and etc.
You met him. You liked him and had a ball with him.
!. Why didn't you get a home address.
2. why didn't you get a phone number.
No married man will give you a correct address or phone number. The first thing to look for and the most telling is, how much does he hesitate when you ask for his address.
Does he ask why you want to know. Two signs you are talking to a married man.
A single man has no problem tell a date his address.
Another thing when you met it sounds like you were together all night. Probably at a Motel right?
Do you live in the same town? If so why didn't he take you to his place.
From the way your writing sounds, you are either messing with a married man or a guy just looking for a bootee call.
I'd check him out very carefully.
Sounds like he's pulling a the standard married man shuffle. I am a man and years ago, I pulled the same kind of stunts. Then I grew up.
2006-11-23 23:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, I would run too! You're totally smothering him and most people can't handle that. Looks like maybe he finally got some space, I think you're pretty lucky that he still seems somewhat interested if he emailed you again. Answer him, make plans to do something and don't call him until the actual day that you guys are going to go out. Or instead of writing back, call him ONCE and make plans and only call again to confirm on the day you are to meet. If he isn't there, leave ONE message and don't bother him again until he returns it. I would only go out with him once maybe twice a week at the most for the first little while, let him have space or he will feel trapped or just plain annoyed. If you find that hard to do, just keep yourself busy with friends so you're not sitting at home waiting for the next time you guys go out. Honestly I've dumped people before just because they called me waaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy too often for no particular reason. Hope this time works out better for you, good luck, and remember, keep yourself busy!
2006-11-23 23:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a good idea, to let him do a little more work. If he is really interested, he will contact you. If a woman keeps coming at me, I get turned off because she sounds desperate.
Don't let that happen to you. Lot of people in this world.
2006-11-23 23:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend says you're either wasting your time or he's playing hard to get. Just go slow. See what happens. Just don't invest too much of yourself in this relationship until you know where it's headed.
2006-11-23 23:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by misskaydee77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him contact you. If he really feels the same way as you do and wants this, he will make contact. If not, walk away and never look back.
2006-11-23 23:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he liked you,sexed you up,and now is ready for the next woman he can score with.Get it yet? He's a dog! Move on.
2006-11-23 23:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wanted to continue the relationship he would have kept the date --- i suggest he is not serious
2006-11-23 23:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him more time, he might have had a problem with a computer virus or something with that Math.com matter..
and better, try to have more communication..
2006-11-23 23:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by ace m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You smothered. Period. He smelled trouble. Sorry.
2006-11-23 23:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Hans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋