I'm only 5'5". No girl has ever wanted to date me. Even the short girls are looking for a tall guy. I put my ad in online personals and no one wants to date me. All the women are looking for guys who are at least 5'10". Please tell me what to do. The only girls who seem to like me are Asian girls but unfortunately I'm not attracted to them. It sucks.
2006-11-23 14:55:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be patient she will come
2006-11-23 14:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to give you some advice, forget about the girls that aren't dating you because of your height. It shouldn't matter what you look like, just the way you act. Are you sure it's your height that they're not dating you for? Cause, if you're a total @ss, (not saying you are, I'm just throwing something out there) then that's probably why they aren't dating you. I, personally, don't care how tall or how short a guy is, just as long they have a great personality (I'm one of those people that believes that what's inside counts). Don't worry about the people that don't date you, they're just stupid (in my opinion). Just wait for the right person to come by, even try dating some of the Asian girls; you can try to get to know them better (Just a suggestion). Well, good luck.
2006-11-23 15:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Akrona 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The average girl is only 5'4" which means there are plenty girls shorter than you. I don't think it bothers as many girls as you think. Make the first move and talk to them first that way they get to see your personality before they look at your height. I did online dating for a while and I was hesitant to write to guys shorter than me, but if they wrote to me first then I knew the height wasn't an issue for them, so it shouldn't be for me either.
2006-11-23 15:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Misty C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get yourself busy with friends and family. Also get into an activity or into a charity that means a lot to you. You'll take your mind off of it more and you'll be doing something that adds some enjoyment to your life. I bet you meet somebody with similar interests that way. The right person will like you for who you are and not how tall you are.
2006-11-23 14:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk like that i am 5 ft 4 1 inch shorter then you.. i know it stupid when a girl says she likes tall guys but dont think about yourself bad i had a lot of taller girls hit on me the tallest was 6ft girls dont go for tall they go for good guys/cute guys i even heard some of there friends tell them how could you like that runt dont let it get too you the perfect girl will find you and asian girls are hott
2006-11-24 18:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by tweeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend (a model in fact and 5'9") married a guy just your height. Don't give up kiddo. She's out there. It may be a bit more difficult for girls to see past your height but when one does she'll see the real you.
2006-11-23 15:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm short. i like a guy who is close to my height. it gets hard to kiss a guy that's too tall. he gets a sore neck from looking down, and you get a sore neck from looking up. you just need to get out, and meet some girls with personality. and that doesn't mean ugly. when you meet the right girl, she won't care if you are 6 feet tall, or 3 feet tall.
2006-11-23 15:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by jammin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're short does not mean you're not dateable. You're a little taller than I am. You seem to have a good heart, and that's what I look for in guys. Email me sometime.
2006-11-23 15:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Short guys can get dates too. You'll have to stick with the short girls though.
2006-11-23 14:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 6'4" so maybe not a good person to give advice BUT
dont be defined by your height - be defined by the person you are
besides short guys have big *****! be brave bold and confident
forget about your height - dont make it your issue
and you dont have to state your height when getting to know someone on the internet - once they know you height will seem irrelevant
just be you not a number!
2006-11-23 14:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you seem like a dateable guy and those girls dont know what they are missing anyway plently of girls would be interested in you
im a girl and im 5''3 im short nad i get the same treatement from guys!!!!
2006-11-23 15:00:04 · answer #11 · answered by alex t 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋