2006-11-23 14:54:07 · 16 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to break up with a "good guy"? Ok date a bad guy and get back to me. I can answer that one.
2006-11-23 14:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you probably received some bad answers so far(I've read them) but i think the best way to break up with a guy if hes a good guy is to,sit him down when you get a chance and talk to him about how much he's been such a good friend in your life and how much you've done change ever since he's came into your life then tell him:so i was thinking maybe it would be a good idea if we just became friends.
2006-11-23 15:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by $corpio_Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be straight with him. Not telling him then ending up doing something with someone else will hurt him alot more than if you just get it over-with. You never know. He just might be relieved that you made the move. If you are currently uncomfortable in the relationship, he knows it. No matter what your words say.
2006-11-23 15:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by tired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing he's too much of a nice guy and you want the badboy type. I think his feelings will be hurt no matter what you say because he knows he has been good to you. Just tell him the truth on why you want to end the relationship.
2006-11-23 14:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not careful your going to find out that you are the one who is going to end up hurting Miss. Thing.
If you know that feelings are going to be stepped on then do what you have to do. I don't think that your going to be as happy with anyone else as you think you are. You chose this guy from the get go and knew what you wanted. What did the neighbors move out next door and the ones who moved in are much moe appealing?
Remember the grass isn't greener on the other side, everyone has crabgrass and weeds it's just a matter of allowing yourself to be happy where you are and to quit looking for something better because before you know it you'll find out that you live in a pasture that is as beautiful as anyone else's .... if not more!!!
.................think about it...............
2006-11-23 15:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by MsEagleTX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he is going to be hurt, and there is nothing you can really do about it. To continue in the relationship to avoid this tho, will hurt him even worse. Talk to him openly...tell him this is just not working out but that he's a great guy and you wish him the best
2006-11-23 14:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not possible. How can you end a relationship and yet avoid hurting him?
And why are you ending it if he's a "good guy"?
2006-11-23 14:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. You went out 3 circumstances, and your in love? You went out 3 circumstances, and also you imagine you've the right to inform him you don't love his BF? LOL answer- you do not. You both manage it, or locate yet another guy with out female bf. If she is his BF, she has extra effect over him than some chick he went 3 xs with. seem at it from yet another attitude--- would you enable a guy you went out with 3xs inform you to drop YOUR BF??
2016-11-29 10:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to do it you just have to tell him. If you wait it will just make it hurt more
2006-11-23 14:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we are growing which is a good thing but we are growing apart. I feel that we can still remain friends
2006-11-23 14:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by LovetoLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋