i work in a large grocery store and there is a young lady that is 20 im 40 she keeps rubing my bald head and says i look nice and likes to hug me a lot im not her boss but im a shift leader she does her job very well and is a very nice lady what should i say to her i dont want to hurt her feeling im not married but i feel 20 is way to young.. Thhanks
2006-11-23 14:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by DANIEL H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK...think about what you're saying...as a man you owe it to all men everywhere to totally go for it!
2006-11-23 14:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by mnorth12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a very real chance that she doesn't consider you as dating material so she's not fearful of being affectionate to you because in her mind the interaction is nothing to her.
Now. If I'm wrong and you're holding back info that lends you to believe she's flirting..... DOOOD...when was the last time you had a 20 yr old girl? You won't get another chance!
2006-11-23 22:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by BiyGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lead her on. Just try to keep this at work only. If she ask for your number give it but dont answer all her calls. When you do call her back say Oh I was out on a date or something. She will see you are already dating some one else and stuff.
2006-11-23 22:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your own best interest you should not talk to her about your feelings. 20 year olds and 40 years olds don't have enough in common to have a relationship. She is just being nice.
2006-11-23 22:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your her shift leader. Talk to your manager about it and when you talk to her your manager should be present. That way your butt is covered. Just explain to her that what she does make you un comfortable and you would like her to stop. If you did that to her she would probable yell sexual harassment.
2006-11-23 22:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back away, and hands up in the air before she does that, and say: "I could be your dad you know." Too close for comfort.
2006-11-23 22:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop it! That you don't appreciate her acting that way during work hours. If she asks you out...tell her you're seeing someone. No one knows what you do in your off hours
2006-11-23 22:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure that you don't want her? r u mistaking her kindness for something else?
u shud tell her face to face so that she can understand that you dont feel comfortable dating yunger women
2006-11-23 22:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by LovetoLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just looking for attention
2006-11-23 22:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by Blue eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your age is not a factor, it is your love, feelings and emotions that matter. if she loves you and you also love her go ahead pull her in your arms close to your bossom and kiss her.
2006-11-23 22:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋