Do you feel that it is good for a woman to ask a man out if she is interested in him? Or should duty be left up to the guys?
I am interested in hearing from both genders on this matter. Also, please be sure to explain your answer, whereas I would like to see what your reasoning is.
Thanks.
2006-11-23 14:43:50 · 10 answers · asked by I'm Still Here 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter to me.
Men are equal (but not the same as) women, so both should have equal oppurtunity. By eliminating one gender in the initiation process, you are creating an inequal relationship from the get-go.
2006-11-23 14:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Aegor R 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a man to ask. I will not. It shows character if the man comes up to a women to do the asking out. I want a man that can stand up and go for what he wants. I might be alittle old fashioned but I feel a lady should be courted properly.
2006-11-23 14:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know what, it's a individual preference. Alot of women don't care if they ask or if they are asked out. I personally, want to be persued by the guy I want to go out with. So, the answer for me is, I want to be ask out by the guy. Why should the guy get out of the one thing that he has always done. I know as a women, I am independent and want to do my own thing but I won't let guys off the hook when it comes to going out. They ask, they pay and drop me off at the door, and if they are lucky may even get a foot in the door, for a coffee or nightcap. Traditional techniques work for me. Have fun reading you answers, I'm curious as to what others have to say to this one. I'm looking forward to reading them.
2006-11-23 14:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's fine for us women. Why does it always have to be up to the guy? If we wait around for them to ask; we may never have a date. I think it shows guts. What's the worse thing they can say? No. their bad!
2006-11-23 14:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea in the abstract, but in reality i could never directly ask a guy out because I would be mortified if he said no. I am fairly shy.
2006-11-23 14:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been asked out by women before, and I think it's cool! Ladies, if you like a man, by all means, ASK HIM OUT!
2006-11-24 02:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would ask a man out “if” I thought he would go out with me.
Trouble is, you go out, he puts pressure on you to finish your dinner early so that you can rush back to his house for an “over night stay.”
I don’t do that!!!
And most men can not understand the word “NO” before you go out on the date.
So why bother? Because we are lonely. We keep trying…and hoping that someone somewhere will wait until marriage before they jump in bed with you.
2006-11-23 14:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Women have had it easy for too long it's time for them to step up and use some of that equality.
2006-11-23 14:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by dano 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say that a woman who asks a guy out is someone who is really confident with herself & is a risk-taker..sometimes, asking someone out is not really about who's asking who..it's just somehow a way to say that you like this person's company or that you like him & i don't see anything wrong about that..Ü
2006-11-23 14:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋