we have been friends for years. met in school. we both r from different backgrounds. he is very tall n i am short. he is fat n i am skinny. he is quite n reserved n i am outgoing n jolly. we usually flirt with each other. we r even done with the date which didn't go too well. we know very well that we r not in love with each other. also, when it comes to romance, we always end up with argument. n because of this we sometimes don't talk to each other for days. but later somehow we again become friends. this has been happening for more than 2 years. he is the only guy who is close to me. we don't hesitate to talk about anything at all. we even know about each other's deepest secrets. do you think we will end up taking our friendship to a next level? what do you understand from our friendship?
2006-11-23 14:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you two are best friends, but seem to have issues when it comes to romance. Matters of the heart are never easy, especially when it's with someone that knows you too well.
So, here's the deal. Either you two learn how to get along when it comes to romance and live happily together, or you two move on. Being best friends with someone of the opposite sex will not abide well in any other relationships you may have. Plus, you have the whole issue of jealousy, which may have not reared it's ugly head yet, but it will once one of you starts dating and the other is still single.
2006-11-23 14:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you guys are good, close friends, and that's the way you should keep it.
If you don't hesitate to talk to each other about anything at all, then you shouldn't have any trouble sorting this out. You could be soulmates... ever think of that?
It's a wonderful relationship to have, and I wish you all the very best of luck.
2006-11-23 14:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Darkwing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remain friends and don't get into a relationship because it will end up in a lost of a good friend.
2006-11-23 14:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by LovetoLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is your best friend. if you can find a friend like that, hold on to him. it sounds like you are not romantically compatible, and don't even try sex together. sex is the quickest way to ruin a friendship. keep him as your best friend, that is the best information i can give you.
2006-11-23 14:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Smith Jerrod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're friends...not cut out for anything more...at least not for now.
2006-11-23 15:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're best friends.
you are the only two that can decide if you're going to take it to the next level.
good luck.
2006-11-23 14:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by SeeEmilyPlay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposits attract! sounds to me like you two are soul mates.
2006-11-23 14:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by puzzledamipuzzled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋