I really like this girl and im pretty sure she likes me back what should i do? Plus i dont want to ruin our friendship if it doesnt go according to planned.
2006-11-23 14:38:23 · 7 answers · asked by bored4556 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask her what she would say if you asked her out on a date. hypothetically. if she thinks its a good idea, then suggest to her that you two should hang out together alone. go to the movies, go for a walk at the park or beach. if not dont worry bout it. at least she will know that you have thought bout it. that will play in her mind and after a while she will probably start having feelins for you, knowing that you feel like that bout her. but you have to take that chance dude. one thing ive learnt from getting older is that regrets suck. ther is nothing worse then lookin back ans wishing you did something differently.
2006-11-23 14:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're likely to ruin a friendship, by expressing a romantic interest in a girl, is if you're too persistent, in the face of rejection. Just express your interest, back off, and let her decide how she wants to respond to it.
The same principle applies, when you're deeper into a relationship. Let's say you've been dating someone for awhile, and both of you are considering marriage. At some point, she starts backing off, like she's having second thoughts. That doesn't mean something is going wrong. It's just a normal part of the process.
The best way to handle that is to back off, and let her decide what she wants to do. If you push, when she's at that stage, it's likely you'll just drive her away.
2006-11-23 14:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With womenyou have 2 really know(there attitude, there demeaner , & Bit*ch'nes ect.)
Before saying i want us to be more than friends(not sure how long you 2 have been friends). Therefore, it's just a matter of time before you jump in the relationship, you also have to think "Are you ready make that next step with your friend"?
Do I think she's ready??
Women can be treaty so just ask her is she ready to make the friendship a whole lot stronger?
2006-11-23 14:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpink4u101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any and ALL relationships are built on trust and love (even if it's only 'like')!
If you have feelings for her, then go with your heart!
However, if she begins to back away from you when you mention your true feelings, back off! She is not ready for this and it could ruin your friendship!
It is (IMHO) better to have one true friend than one who shys away from you!
Put yourself in a similar situation. How would you react?
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2006-11-23 14:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all about taking risks & coping up with the consequences..you will always be asking about the what if's & could've beens unless you try to make a move..good luck! Ã
2006-11-23 14:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF youre REALLY SURE that she likes you, then ask her out.
2006-11-23 14:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her
2006-11-23 14:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Luckys Charm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋