I have liked one of my best guy friends for 3 years. I know that he has and i'm pretty sure stil likes me but wont come out and admit it. There are times when he acts so weird around me that I cant stand it. Then there are other times when he's around his friends (their my friends too) that he doesn't seem to care. Then a couple weeks ago he was basically acting like he was my boyfriend or somthing. he always goes through these phases where he seems so in love, then it dies down and then picks up again and i'm to the point of screaming. If theres any advice or thoughts on this I would realy appriciate it. thanks!
2006-11-23 14:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
have you really tried to sit down with him and talk about the way you feel maybe he just needs a little nudge in the right direction he may not be telling you how he feels because he does not want to be rejected and just remember if you do tell him it may or may not happen and that friendship line would be crossed so think about it really hard before you act upon anything good luck
2006-11-23 15:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all if you think you could be happy with him then try asking him out but make sure that is what you really want to do first. Or you could get one of his really good friends that he will like tell them anything and get them to ask him how he truly feels about you or what he truly thinks about you. If they come back with something that makes you happy to hear and you think you really want to go out with him then go for it. But if you do take him away from everyone and do it. The bad thing about this is that is could go bad and things don't work out and then it could be all weird around him. So you could also have him friend ask him what he would think about going out with you. But that is really all the advice I have to give you at least that is what I would do if I was in that situation.
2006-11-23 23:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by i_love_some_person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is keeping you as a spare, when he doesn't have anything better to do he is your "Boyfriend"
Tell him to take a hike and definitely don't let him use you anymore. There are nice guys out there just look for them. Don't waste your time chasing the wishywashy guys of the world.
2006-11-23 22:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your arms around him and say, "I've often wondered what it'd be like if we dated. Do you want to find out?"
2006-11-23 22:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will stop when the two of you stop playing games with each other.
2006-11-23 22:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab him by the b@lls - that will get his attention
or dress sexy for him
2006-11-23 22:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋