So, i have this girl's phone number, i'm gonna call her, what should i talk about, i can't find what is she interested in when i talk to her in real person...... -_- If i talk about school, it sounds kinda nerdy because she's not smart at all, and i kinda get a little bit nervous when i talk on the phone....
2006-11-23 14:35:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To begin with, I hope you got her phone number by asking her for it, and not through other means. When a girl gives you her phone number, she's also giving you permission to call her, and that's part of the reason for asking. That's one reason getting the phone number from a mutual friend usually isn't the best idea.
Why do you want to call her? What is it about her, that makes her more attractive to you than other girls? What would you like to do with her? Keep it at a G rating. She'll assume you want to have sex with her at some point. You don't need to tell her that. These are all things that you can talk about.
If you're more nervous on the phone than you are in person, that's probably because a phone conversation doesn't give you all the visual cues, that let you know how you're coming across. The Cues are still there, but you need to listen for them, instead of watching for them. Pay attention, not only to her words, but to her tone of voice, and the sound of her breathing.
2006-11-23 15:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what you love to talk about if she likes what you like, then you have something in common, if not go find another girl where you can share both your interests from that grows a friendship, join a club and find a girl there. keep smiling and be honest. Good Luck
2006-11-23 22:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, She can smell fear and she will tell her friends. Anywayz, ask her how her day went. She will probably say not much, and then question that and so on. It may sound annoying, but she will think you very interested in her. When you find that topic you can talk about..BAM start talkin. But dont really talk, listen, the will do the rest.
2006-11-23 22:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Thegreatgk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what kind of things she's into. Start off by saying, "Hey I heard that "insert band name" is having a concert here next weekend. Were you planning on going?" and then that will get her started off on what type of music she likes. Eventually the conversation will flow. Trust me, if she gave you her number, she wants you to call... so don't just wimp out and not call her. It's worse than totally flubbing it up when you do.
2006-11-23 22:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know how u r but you can get a friend to call her and found out what she interested in. Also you can talk about movies,sports,show suff like that.If u need more help just write a other question
2006-11-23 22:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by girl z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask questions... lots of em.
Stuff that you will have fun talking about too.. as the other posters said.
Like maybe her favorite music... and if she's into sports.. ect....
If shes a good conversationist...she will be able to think of something to talk about too.
2006-11-23 22:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything else but school,find what she likes t do and go from their most women likes to talk so then invite her for face to face outing sense you don't like the phone
2006-11-23 22:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by steven c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, and ask her to go out, then talk to her and tell how do you feel...a good kiss can break the ice
2006-11-23 22:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally be yourself babe... if anything DO NOT pretend to be something your not... i just got out of a relationship that he was like that. trust me if there is one thing girls hate, it's a guy that is fake and pretends to be something he's not. And just ask simple questions about her, try and make her laugh... i love it when guys make me laugh.
~ K.K.~
2006-11-23 22:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by KeLsIeWiLliAmS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her a few things you like doing then ask her what she likes
search around about movies, music etc and see where you both share
2006-11-23 22:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋