what do i have to do to get a girl? i am clueless.i really need help because the advice i have gotten has not worked. i havent had a girlfriend in some time any and all help will be appreciated.
2006-11-23 14:31:17 · 22 answers · asked by tom_mcmullen06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been my self and done alot of the advice given so far but it doesnt work. and i dunno how to flirt. ive been told im a great guy and really sweet dont ever change but im always seen as a friend
2006-11-23 14:38:45 · update #1
It's a really broad question, so we'll have to narrow it down.
The first step is to look where you're interested. If you don't drink, bars might not be the best choice. If you're religious, check out your place of worship. If you're interested in sports/hobbies, check local clubs or teams.
For the actual dating thing, don't go for married women for obvious reasons. Unless you're good at flirting, don't do it. Look nice and have good-smelling breath. Treat them with respect (i.e., don't tell sexist jokes) and no conversation-stoppers or telling of your medical history. Just ask them out, but ask them if they want to do something instead of "Do you want to go out."
People can see through fakes, so just act as you would normally.
2006-11-23 14:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Aegor R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let's start from the beginning. Stop drooling and looking desperate because it'll show. Next why don't you start by just hanging out in a group to get to know some of the girls. If there's a girl you really think you'd like try smiling for starters - she might actually notice you. Start with something simple like asking her about her classes or teachers or even if she has pets - keep it simple.
Once you've started talking keep it going - give her one compliment - I said one - anymore than that and you'll start looking desperate - tell her she has a nice smile or you like the color of her hair because it reminds you of honey for blonde, etc. Ok, so you think it's geeky but it works. Slowly work your way to asking her if she wants to go to a movie or a game - it will require getting her phone number.
You may think these are old fashioned ways of hooking up with a chick but they've stood the test of time for decades haven't they? What have you got to lose since nothing else so far as worked.
Good Luck
2006-11-23 22:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by junebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident in front of a girl even if you don’t feel it. Smile and make her laugh. Find out things about her, starting a friendship first is a good idea as it puts less pressure on you to get everything right. I think girls like funny, friendly, generous guys the most but being well dressed and not being rude or arrogant helps too.
2006-11-23 22:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by swelljosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo im not a girl but i know some ways that always work.
1 BE really nice.
2 Show that you share her same interests.
3 Flirt wit her.
4 Ask her for her phone no and call her.
5 Hangout wit her. 6Finally, ask her out.
2006-11-23 22:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to the girl that you have your eye on, then get to know her...don't push it, girls do not like when the guy wants to rush into something. Second, don't try to be someone your not and if she's nice treat her the way a gentlemen should. She'll then start to like you and you could buy her roses and ask her out like on a little card or something. Hope I helped. : )
2006-11-23 22:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jubilee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not female but i will still answer it. i feel the same way. i am kind of shy. the advice which i can give you is that be yourself and dont be nervous to talk 2 a girl. what girls mostly want is physical attractiveness, and game. if u have the game to talk 2 them, then they'll come to you instead oif you going to them. i dont know how u look but without any offense, i wanna tell u that if u r ugly, it will be one of the facts for girls for now liking you. be free,go and talk 2 them. try it.
2006-11-23 22:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by lincolngomes301 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self!!!! Don't act desperate OR defeated!!! Show LOTS of self confidence....and great sense of humor...and good manners....and GREAT hygiene, neat and clean clothing... If you are doing all of these things...then just Smile..and be friendly!!! Make eye contact!!! (girls hate it when guys won't look them in the eye...and DO NOT stare at her boobs or butt!!! Remember a relationship starts out as a friendship!!!! Take you time to get to know her and let her get to know you!!! Don't rush it...that makes you seem shallow or desperate!!! Good luck!!!!
2006-11-23 22:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by photogram1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Pick a girl out that you have a crush on and compliment her everyday and walk or drive her home if you can and get her phone number so you can arrange dates ..just casual dates at first.
2006-11-23 22:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by Red F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local food market and talk to everyone there, smile be friendly. Ask every woman you have contact for a date. Dont give up, smile be friendly and open. Good luck.
2006-11-23 22:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.heres MY list:
1.be a gentleman dont curse,spit ect
2.buy her something and just ask her out
3.compiment
4.call her
5. try not to act too obsessed with her
6.find some one u like turn on that charm i know u have and ask her to the movies.
7.at the movies you need to do something nice or hot.
2006-11-23 22:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋