2006-11-23 14:27:49 · 17 answers · asked by Adam Mesenbrink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Befriend them first or bring a friend along to boast confidence.......
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2006-11-23 14:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by chilling_1ce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're scared, because you're expecting too much out of the first encounter. If you're looking at a girl as, potentially, your future wife, and you haven't even said "hi" to her yet, that would rattle anyone's nerves.
If the only time you talk to a girl is when you're trying to ask one out on a date, you're taking too big a step all at once. Get in the habit of making a little small talk, when you aren't looking for it to go any further than that, even with girls you wouldn't be interested in dating.
If you do that, you will become more comfortable with the process, and actually asking a girl to go out with you will be less of a challenge.
2006-11-23 14:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about just smiling for starters? Kind of think of them as your buddies at the beginning - ask them about their classes or teachers - something that's easy. Start in a small way with questions that are easy and general and go from there. You don't have to try to act look you're experienced because you'll only make yourself look unfavourable. Try to be yourself - it's hard at the beginning but the more you do it the easier it gets - really.
Good Luck.
2006-11-23 14:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by junebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet a girl...she's like a new friend. Almost no guys I know (even the ones who are considered hot) have ever just gotten a girl "like that". Just be yourself, act cool and calm (or hyper if the situation calls for it) and you'll not be feel scared any more.
2006-11-23 14:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just a guess, but you are probably only scared to talk to girls that you find pretty or that you want to date..my advice is to talk to girls you are not attracted to first, the more girls you talk to the easier it will become to talk to one you like. I was lucky and had 3 cute girls as neighbors when I grew up, so I was never nervous about talking to them, I always felt that they were the reason I had no fear, b/c I was comfortable talking with them, I was comfortable talking with any girl
2006-11-23 14:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by vincenzo445 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I've been scared to talk to guys. (I'm female.) It sounds like you're either really shy around girls or scared of rejection. Just be yourself, go up to one, and say something like, hi, how are you. If you see anyone watching, just ignore them.
2006-11-23 14:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ugly girls and build confidence, then you'll be one step closer to being able to speak to girls that you really want. Good luck
2006-11-23 14:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about that first time. once u go up and talk to a girl for the first time ur gonna be sweating and nervous but the next time it'll be easier and its all downhill from there!! goodluck!!
2006-11-23 14:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by tim8laura238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them like you don't care what anybody thinks. It's the biggest turn on.
2006-11-23 14:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Deana S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to one alone. Approaching a group of giggling girls would intimidate me, and I am old enough to be their mother.
2006-11-23 14:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋