My boyfriend is 18...and im 15...my mom is okay with this...but my dad on the other hand is not, and the thing that makes me mad is that he hasn't even met him...
My boyfriend is caring and really sweet and i have never been treated this way before...me and him have been dating for 9 months tomorrow...and whatnot...my dad said he doesnt know about this b/c hes 18 and he says its illegal...and i have talked to my friend who is 17 and she says its only illegal if we have sex, which we dont plan on it ne time soon....and she said once i turn 16 its not cuz me and him will only be 2 years apart..and i turn 16 in about 4 months and some odd days...if ne one has ne adivce i would appricate it..
thanks
2006-11-23 14:24:47 · 2 answers · asked by basketballbabe01223 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The younger you are the more the age difference matters. Older boys want more from a girl on a date then younger boys do. You say you will turn 16 in 4 months but when will he turn 19? Four months is almost ½ a year. That information you give about your years apart in age proves your immaturity in thinking. It will still be the same age difference as it is now. You can measure it in years, months, and days no matter what time of the year it is. You say you are not interested in having sex yet but what about his wants and when you are making out it is not always easy to stop and an older boy will be able to influence your judgment more then one closer to your age and capabilities. When you turn 18 then that age difference will be trivial but for now I agree with your dad.▲
2006-11-30 17:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father's tend to be more overprotective of their daughters than mothers...maybe because they remember how they were at that age. Since your mom is okay with it, invite him over for supper sometime to meet your dad.
2006-11-26 16:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋