I dont know if i should trust my b/f he lives almost 1 hr away..?

Question

i been with him for 1yr and only see him once a week for couple of hours.. i talk to him all the time over the phone but im a really jealous and dont trust him that i know he hasnt cheat on me but i wouldnt know cause he lives far so i cant see him..I really do love him but sometimes when he dont pick up his phone i wonder? And thats making me talk so much **** to him that he is getting fed up...i dont know what to do or to think..We are both 21 year old

Answer 1

well if you love him, then you should trust him. you have to have trust if you are going to have a stable relationship. you should talk to him about how you are feeling. if you really love him you don't want a little thing like jealousy to get in the way. good luck!

Answer 2

You are being way to clingy and too jealous. If you can't trust him but have no real reason, then that is probably more your fault than his. However, if he is the kind of guy that can't be trusted, then why do you want him as a boyfriend??

Trust is absolutely critical to a relationship. It sounds as if there is no trust on your part. Plus, even if he isn't fooling around now, you may be driving him to it.

If you really love him, trust him. If you don't trust him, you don't really love him. You may WANT him, but you don't love him.

Answer 3

ok first thing im going to tell you is im a male 19 y/o, i have a g/f ive been with for 2 and a half cool years (and im thinking about marige im not sure yet mayb a couple more years first). number one thing is trust most definatly trust. girls want guys to trust them whenever they go somewhere with someone maybe a guy even, but girls have to do the same thing. plus he only lives one hr. away worse come to worse call him if you feel suspicuses about something, and ask him to say your name. (and ive never done thins only have friend who made this Big mistake) guys will lie to others girls to make them go out with them cause other girls will be like "O u already have a girlfriend and you want more, O no that aint happening with me nope" and they dont want to be around them. so guys lie to them but if you call your b/f then tell him to say your name the girls hes with will leave and now u know hes cheating then you dump him cause he aint going to change no matter how much you say to yourself he will. and the reason that is, is because guys really only change for girls they really want to be with, and he obviously dont want to be with you if hes cheating, and may only change for a little while but thats just to play you. and you might want to make a surprise visit, go there on a random day dont tell him and walk in with maybe a small gift or something cause us guys love gifts from our girlfriends, cause then we want to get you a nicer one, (which is good for you btw). but yeah thats basically all i can say good luck for u.

Answer 4

i was dating a guy that i was friends with for 7 years and dating for 2 until i move further away but by the end of the summer we stopped talking do to the fact that he was dating other people i believe if he really cares he will do something t prove it

Answer 5

if u trusted a whole long year why distrust a small distance of an hour away..? would u get intoxd by mere talking on phone.. united literally u get it with him

Answer 6

If you can't trust him, the relationship will never move forward. If he hasn't given you a reason to not trust him, then you should trust him.

Answer 7

I think you should talk to him, if he is stupid enough to cheat on you, then dump him! No biggie! You won't die if you broke up with him!

Answer 8

Find a bf that lives closer to you and that you don't have to worry about.

Answer 9

If you don't trust him then don't stay with him.