2006-11-23 14:14:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not enough details about what the relationship everyone involed has with you.
As a general rule, it is probably best not to. If the one being betrayed reacts with denial, they will blame you and call you mean or evil.
If it is someone very close that would resent you for not telling them, then I suggest you go to the person who is cheating and confront them to get honest instead! Good luck kiddo!
2006-11-23 14:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a close friend of this person, tell them. Sooner or later, they will find out and if they find out that you knew, they will be even more mad at you for not telling them. It is none of your business, but I've been on the other end of that. I would've rather had someone tell me. Maybe tell the "significant other" that you know and give them a chance to fess up. If they don't, sit your friend done and tell them. If they don't believe you, at least you told them.
2006-11-23 14:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the cheating spouse first. Tell him/her that they should confess or else you will. Friendship is more important, but be sure because it's a pretty serious accusation. If the spouse admits to cheating and continues to do so without saying anything, then I would go have a talk with the friend and let her know. Ask yourself : would you want to know if your spouse was cheating on you? Then follow your heart. Good luck to you all.
2006-11-23 14:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need CONCRETE proof. The cheating partner needs to have told you or you need to see it happening live in front of you. Do not go running to the person and ruin their relationship because you heard a rumor third hand. Then simply pull the other partner aside privately and calmly and tell them what happened and offer any support they need at the time. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-23 14:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by chairkiss_silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would tell the person who is cheating first that you know. Tell him/her that they tell their significant other first or you will. If they deny the entire thing, I suggest staying out of it cause it's going to lead to big problems for you.
2006-11-23 14:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by extreme98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright, well i did this once because i thought that i was being a nice friend and helping them out. well it didnt really work the way i thought it would. they and their significant other hated me! don't ask me why, they just did. if you know for a fact that they are cheating then i would say tell them calmly and be there to help them. don't just drop the bomb. good luck!
2006-11-23 14:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pretti N Piink33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. It's always best to stay out of this type of thing. More than likely if you tell, the cheater is going to deny it. Then the other person is going to question if you are telling the truth or not. Don't say anything.
2006-11-23 14:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to their significant other first and give them a chance to fess up.
2006-11-23 14:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by joshatgrace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first yo sit them down, then you tell them you have good news and bad news which one do they want first, then according to what they say ofcourse it wil be bad first you say Your partner is cheating on you, and then the good news would be is not with you.... and you have plenty of time to move on before it got any worst... good luck
2006-11-23 14:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by prettyfalcon197 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't. Just leave them an anonymous photo of the 2 people in question & go about your business as if you never knew a thing. :o)
2006-11-23 14:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋