I've liked this guy at my church for 2 years and I REALLY like him!!!! but, hes 2 yrs. older than me?? is that wrong??? Also,I don't know what to do to get him to notice me or flirt with me!! also, his bestfriend likes me and has asked me out several times. Is the guy that I like scared to do something because of that??
thanks,
abby
2006-11-23 14:13:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore all these people making comments about focussing only on God at church - church is also for socalizing.
I met my husband at church when we were little kids, so trust me, it happens (we are both 18 now).
No, the age difference isn't wrong...but, are you two friends right now? Start off with being friends, and then see what goes on from there. And by friends, I mean, actually hanging out and talking outside of church...not the hi, how are you? type of deal.
email me if you ever want to talk!
and dont give up - you can have a relationship with him if its what God wants!
2006-11-23 14:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, try to get involved in church activities where the guy also joins. From there u'll get to know him n he might notice u. See how it goes..Take things slowly. Build up the friendship first before going further..
2006-11-23 14:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, lucky you, there arn't really any cute girls at my church, but for you i'd say go for it, his friend likes you, ask them what he thinks of you, and ask the guy(th one you like) if he wants to hang out some time, don't try to flirt, men(well I) hate that, just be up front about it, if he says "no" then just move on.
oh, btw are you a christian? or what? I'm christian, so that'd be cool
2006-11-23 14:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his friend has told him he likes you so he's backing off.Your going to have to tell this guy you like how you feel and move on to the next stage.
2006-11-23 14:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men are cowards and like the women to take the first
step.....I know it's terrible but hey,it's life.....
So don't be afraid,take the first step and ask him out.......
* A girl starts to walk towards me...... *
2006-11-23 14:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by chilling_1ce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him yourself just say to him i am always turning your freind down because i like you and throw him your sweetest smile or the next time his freind asks you out politely say to him im sorry i cant possibly date you when i have a huge crush on your freind can you be a love and fix us up
2006-11-23 14:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His name better be Jesus. That is who you should be flirting with at church.
2006-11-23 14:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has'nt said anything to you in two years is an answer in itself.
2006-11-23 14:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Vinegar Taster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u little sinner lol kidding hey the devil always gives u fun dont i
2006-11-23 14:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
good place to start
2006-11-23 14:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋