boyfriends...?

Question

i want a boyfriend so effing bad.
i get nervous with guys. i think i just blew a guy that liked me away.
he came by my house and i was like ok gotta go bye! and shut the door. literally. what to do?! grr, help! i dont even know hwo to flirt.

10 points to the best answer.
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Answer 1

I know how you feel. I was like that last year everytime a guy would try to make a conversation with me and would get nervous and start saying stuff that made no sense or either I would say nothing. Just try to relax and be yourself. Trust me on this one. :)

Answer 2

OK, this is gonna sound crazy, but quit looking for a bf. I tried "looking" for a gf, and it wasn't till I gave up and just tried to have friends that i met the girl who has been my gf for a year and a half now. Learn to relax around guys, and you will find flirting a lot easier. Male friends with guys before you try to date them, because friendship makes a partner worth the sacrifice needed in a good, strong, serious relationship.

Answer 3

Ok, first of all, you need to build up your self esteem. Do you have any guy friends? They could be of some help. You don't need to be able to flirt, or anything. Also, you just can't "want" a boyfriend out of the blue. You have to try dating around first. Just watch what you say, and if you can't help being nervous, try just simply talking to a guy (you don't have to flirt), maybe joke around loosen up, whatever, and just take it easy. Everything will happen in time.

Answer 4

okk this is what happens the guy u like u got to goo up to him and find something in commin u both like so then u talk about then givw him ur number and ask for his then wait three dayz cuz the guy has to think about u and it takes three dayz then u call him and say want to goo out for a movie !and rememer he dosent have to ask u out sone be afraid of u asking him ok !
and how u flirt is u talk about things to ur frnds infront of him and pretend u dont see him then about 3 min. later turn around and say i didnt even notice u were ther then giggle and talk with him some-thing that u guyz like and tease him and u can telll if he likes u if he teases u back !

Answer 5

first of all, guys can almost tell if a girl is desperate for a guy and they usually avoid that. so just chill out..not having a boyfriend is not a big deal. there are lots of single girls there. you're not the only one.

and no one can really teach you how to flirt. it just comes to you when you're comfortable with a guy. i'm personally a silly flirt, but different girls have different flirting styles.

so yeah, just relax and don't pressure yourself into getting a guy. just go with the flow and be yourself

Answer 6

First of all i dont think that it is the boys you have to worry about.
I think that you should work on your self esteem. when you are strong from inside it will show on the out side and that will attrack the right type of guys.
good luck

Answer 7

just be yourself or think of yourself as way better than them so that you will be comftorble around them then say things like wassup baby or if you wanna be less forward laugh at all there jokes and no matter your age the friendly touch works good luck :)

Answer 8

Join the dating services to boost your confidence, get the feeling of meeting, talking and dating!

Answer 9

Call up the guy you just ran off and apologize, explain why
you did it, explain you are really shy, and ask him to come back
over and give you another try....

Answer 10

be nice and always think that in your head. go with the flow and dont be afraid of yes everyone is not out to get you. GOOD LUCK:)