if u love him for the first time would u need sex to show love or is it that u can wait till the time is right but how does it feel at first.
2006-11-23 13:45:43 · 22 answers · asked by Shirley l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shirley,
You need to slow down...
You have a crush on your teacher....
You like a guy you just met from China....
You ask questions like you are 14....
Wait for the right guy, the right time.
Even if you feel it is taking too long.
It will turn out to be the right thing.
Sex is one of those things that you can't
know exactly how you will feel till you do it.
Don't make a big mistake....
Life is not erasable...
Listen to your real feelings,
not your hormones.
You won't be sorry for giving yourself time.
2006-11-23 14:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I really dontn understand the question that much but this is what I think you are saying.
I think you should wait until the time is right. You dont have to have sex to show love for a person. There are other ways of showing physical feeling toward love. Dont rush into thinks without making sure that it is what you rally want because when it is all over you just might regret it after you think about it. So just wait to make sure that it is something that you both want and not just to prove that you love him.
2006-11-23 21:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having to ask, then the answer is obvious. No. If sex is the only way you can express your 'love', then it isn't love at all. And if you are of the opinion that having sex will make him stay with you, then you are in for a huge disappointment, because he won't. You can't use sex as a bargaining chip. He'll dump you like a whacking great rock.
2006-11-23 21:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Val G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur asking that im sure that means that ur not hundred percent certain about what ur gonna do, and in that case, i suggest u wait. nowadays people are taking sex less n less seriously, but from where i come from, its still a pritty big deal. just try holding off. once u 2 are really close and ur sure u love him, tell him, but dont do it as a way of telling him. wait till both of u are really serious and ur hundred percent sure ur willing to give it to him.
2006-11-24 02:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you old enough to be having sex? By that I also mean mature enough? Only you can tell when its right for you to have sex, and dont rush into it. Oh and the first time hurts like hell!
2006-11-24 01:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, wait until the time is right.
Sex isn't required to show love.
It's a beautiful experience between two consenting adults who love one another. (Shagging is a different experience alltogether, but we'll not go into that here).
It's not memorable in a good way if you're not ready....remember that and stick to your guns.
2006-11-23 23:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by vegetable soup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need sex to show someone that you love them. Love is shown through the way you act and the things you do, sometimes without even realising it.
2006-11-24 04:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to have sex with any guy to love them!!! when it suits you go for it..but if your not ready then you will deffo not enjoy the experience...the longer you wait the better!! good luck x
2006-11-23 22:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by chick07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man made it clear to me with our first time together that he wanted to wait until the time was right... its the best way.
2006-11-24 04:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, if you are asking that on here, then you are probably too young.
Yes, wait till the time is right. The first time is faintly painful, from what I recall, but only fleetingly.
2006-11-23 21:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋