a verry good friend of mine says when he has sex with his wife she wants him to talk about me to her. certanly i am flattered but i ask him not to tell me these things but he tells me everything they do down to the verry detail.honestly at first it was funny but i am tired of it. we are verry good friends but he will not stop although i beg him to.i am old enough to be her dad
2006-11-23 13:39:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's feeling you out, he wants to have a threesome with you
2006-11-23 13:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by jnet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u mean. I once had a friend that kept asking me to go to a topless bar. After so many times i ran out of excuses and went. The first girl out was his wife! I turned around and left. He came after me and said don't you like the way my wife looks? I said she is your wife, why would u want me to look at her? He said he was proud of the way she looked. I told him it made me very uncomfortable, and to never again put me in that type of embarrassing situation again. I found out later that his wife was also surprised to see me there, and she was equally embarrassed. I guess that the moral of this story is Your friend needs to be put in his place, and let him know that u will not again be the subject of his sickness. If u don't stand for something then maybe u will fall for anything.
2006-11-23 21:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by fall guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel flattered. When he starts telling you all this, just let it go in one ear and out the other. If you don't give him any response about it, or any comment, he'll look for something else to talk about. Or you can change the subject, then when he mentions it, just start talking about something else. He'll soon thing its not anything in common with you...........ps, have you talked to his wife about this, and told her it bothers you a little bit?
2006-11-23 21:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are weirder than you know,,Id stay away from them.I had something similar happen with a couple I know,,even tho I was not involved with them that way,,they involved me when Im not even around.I think thats really weird & gives me the creeps.
2006-11-23 21:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell yor friend that you had enough and tell him if his really a mature grown man,tell him to stop. cuz what your friend doing is kindda childish.. and I understand,you dont wanna offend him as well so you explain to him slowly and talk it over with him, have a discussion. But if he still buggin' ya that means that he's hasn't gone through puberty yet..hee hee..kiddin' k?
2006-11-23 21:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dante-rebillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered that this might be a wind-up by your friend?
Tell him again, that you're not interested in his sex life, and if he doesn't stop, your friendship is finished. Then, steer well clear of him... like bargepole length. :-)
Good luck.
2006-11-23 21:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Darkwing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom. Tell him to keep his mouth shut!
2006-11-23 21:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants a three some
2006-11-23 21:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by serengeti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
thats weird. tell him how you feel! if he is a freind he will stop.
hope this helps.
2006-11-23 21:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweetheart--xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sees you as a father figure, I assume.
2006-11-23 21:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dark Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋