My friend sleeps(not sex) with her b/f some nights. Should she be worried he's gonna feel her up while she sleeps?? Can She trust him?? I am worried. She was raped b4 and now, I will feel like it's my fault if it happens again. Will he abuse her trust??
Should I tell her I am worried??
Should I tell her not to. He's a great person everywhere he goes. Is it ok to worry??
Today is a bad day for her. Do you think he will understand or take advantage of the fact that she is distraught?? She loves him and he loves her, but he seems to like her more. Is that bad??
Would a b/f of 1.5 years rape his g/f?? I am a little worried about her judgment cuz she is very upset. 1 yr ago, 13 people she knew died. Do you think it will cloud her judgement??
I am having trouble typing 2day. Sorry for the errors
There was a bad car wreck after they left the hospital where her grandfather had just died. The others were killed by a gunman.
2006-11-23 13:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by arabella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he has'nt taken advantage of her so far,he probably won't.Incidently it would be very difficult to prove rape if she goes to bed with him Don't worry for her,she seems to be handling herself quite well
2006-11-23 13:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all, you should not feel it is ur fault if anything happens to her. And if your friend is comfortable with her b/f and he knows her entire situation, then there should be nothing serious to worry about. People dont rape other people because they just get the notion to just "take it". It is a psychological thing, and it isn't very common for someone to date a girl for 1.5 yrs, then decide he is gonna rape her. I am sorry your friend has such emotional scars and I can only imagine what she is going through, but she seems to have a good support group. or at least a really good friend. Don't worry so much, though. You might drive her crazy ;-)
2006-11-23 13:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by SWTCHKS925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i dunno if i can blieve u or not. that is pretty horrible. i never thought i would blieve in bad luck. geeze....if she luves him she shouldnt b worried about nething. she can trust him if she luves him enough. i dont think he will abuse her trust if he luves her. you should tell her ur worried. its not ur decision whether she does or not so u cant tell her not to. its ok 2 worry. i think he will understand that she is distraught. its not bad for him 2 luv her more. how much more, tho? i dont think a luving b/f would rape his g/f. i think 13 ppl dieing in 1 year could cloud her judgement but she can still controll her feelings. its ok that there r errors. i understand, mostly. i just cant blieve God would do this. but everything happens for a reason. a solution would b 2 pray 2 God & tell him everything that is written on here, even tho he already knos. if u dont blieve in him, it wouldnt hurt 2 try & pray. just give it a shot & remember, one of Gods greatest gift is unanswered prayers. the best will come in the end. & from this, i think u lyk her 2.
2006-11-23 13:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by roxy angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow no advice here, just sorry to hear that she has gone through so many bad things. Good thing she has a friend like you that is so concerned about her.
2006-11-23 13:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way please.But you have nothing to do with it.She is going to have to able to trust this man she'd seeing on her own.It's the only way she is going to be able to put what happen to her in the past and live on.Just be there for her IF she needs you and nothing more.Let her live her own life,don't live it for her.
2006-11-23 13:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez i mean i'm sorry about all the problems you've had as of late, but if she sleeps with him yes hes gonna want some
2006-11-23 13:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've watched too much movies! Relax.....
2006-11-23 13:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋