Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months. Were very close but havent gone past kissing, Were both ready to go atleast a little further from what I can tell and I just wanted to know, what I should do next and how should I go about that?
2006-11-23 13:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by john h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
invite her over.
dress sexy.
spray a fragence like ax in your room or whereever youre gunna be.
then when its time. make your moved.
brush your hand against her arm and lean in for a good makeout session.
and go from there.
<3
2006-11-23 13:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's "as far as you can tell" on the BOTH of you being ready to go further, the first thing is to make sure she really IS ready to go past kissing. Once you verify that she is, set some time aside for just the two of you. Watch a romantic movie (no matter how sappy you think it is xD ), put your arm around her, and when the big kiss comes up, lean in and take it from there.
I'd say don't go past making out until you're both sure about where it's going from there. A lot of times, girls are too afraid of rejection to say "stop" when something is going too far, so they won't. Let her lead, if it's possible, and I can almost guarantee that you'll have a night/afternoon to remember.
One last tip--if this is your first time actally making out (I don't know--after all, I don't even know who you are =) ), avoid making her think you're related to a bottom-feeding suckerfish by taking it one lip at a time--none of this CPR business. Trust me, it's gross.
2006-11-23 21:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Eevie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is for u to try to go further..she will let u know if she isnt ready yet....Mutual feeling is the next step..so be brave and try ..she can only say no..then y will know she isnt ready for anything further at the moment. After 3 months u should be able to talk to each other about where u are going.
2006-11-23 21:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by eridel2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool, you've only been seeing each other for three months. Don't rush things, and some night, when you both are out on a date, or by yourself. I think you will both be ready for the next step. Its nice to plan the next move, but it always is more special when both of you just wing it. Then you are both more comfortable, and who knows how far both of you will take it......Have fun, and remember, the excitement of each new step only happens once..........take your time and enjoy them!!
2006-11-23 21:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out for a meal and ask her whether she feels the same way. Chances are, she does, but doesn't want to appear cheap to you if you're not ready.
Three months is not so long, you know, and I think maybe you should hold off if you can't discuss it with her sensibly. Having said that, I think that if you want to go ahead, be romantic about it, discreet and considerate. I'm sure things will come out ok.
2006-11-23 21:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Darkwing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe either talk to her about it or when you two are alone then slowly go a little further if she doesnt like it then she will let you no and im sure that she wont be mean or anything about it because you have been dating for 3 months.
2006-11-23 21:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by ^^Katiee^^ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you can tell, first make sure she is ready to move on. Dont make a move that she is not ready for. Once you find out she is ready, after kissing lead on to other places.
2006-11-23 21:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to eat somewhere nice and go dancing, and take a nice walk through the park or something holding each others hand and ask her would she like to take you guy's relationship further, it does'nt hurt to ask
2006-11-23 21:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....
thats a tuff one,
first you gatta make sure she's comfortable and the enviornment is right.....
set the mood with som candels
and insents, kiss her a little on the neck then on the lips,
let her help
have her tell you where to touch her and how she wants to be touched
and well you can take it from here
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2006-11-23 21:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋