I recently met a wonderful woman over two months ago. We have seen each other about 4 times per week and our conversations have been more intimate than usual on the first few dates. We made love the day before Thanksgiving. I am thinking of sending her flowers to commemorate our first time together but I have been burned in the past with being too clingy.
2006-11-23 13:33:04 · 21 answers · asked by jordan1402005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't just give her flowers...that is kind of like "here's some flowers thankx for the sex it was good".She could take that the wrong way it all depends on what type of woman she is. You should that her out to dinner ...nice but not to fancy. You can get the flowers but start with something other that roses especially red ones. If you do get roses chose pink. Pink is for passion..red is for love... yellow is for friendship...and I don't remember what white is for.You can have the flowers waiting for her at your place where you should take her after your meal.You open the door, turn on the lights, wait for her to notice flowers and if she doesn't assume they are for her you say huh, I wonder who those are for why don't you go check sweety. And yada yada the night will proceed and you'll most likely get lucky again!
2006-11-23 13:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Red F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you should send her the flowers. I wouldn't consider that too clingy. I'd be worried more about the opposite. Usually guys draw back after the first time and sending her flowers would be like saying, "I wasn't just in it for the sex." You know what I'm saying? Send her the flowers. Hope that works for you! Good luck.
2006-11-23 13:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kassie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just want to send her flowers simply to let her know you appreciate her, do so. There's a difference between showing someone you care, and using gifts to generate a guaranteed response. Remember that, and the only automatic or guaranteed response you're likely to get will be a smile...(And hopefully a thank you...)
2006-11-23 13:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would be very nice. just don't tell her you love her. it's too soon. send her flowers saying something like "i had a very nice time last night, and would you like to go to dinner on ??"
i think she will be very flattered. as for being burned everyone has been there you just have to move on and not judge this one for what the others have done to you. if it's right it will all work out. i've been burned and i've burned but now i have found my soul mate. so if it's meant to be it will.
2006-11-23 13:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't need flowers for that, unless it was her first time ever in her whole life. Remember Anniversaries, or get flowers just because you want to. Don't be too clingy. It is a total turn off.
2006-11-23 13:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by jnet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women love flowers. It is coming from Your heart. I think it is a really good idea.
You could just say thinking of You...still.
The girls that burned You before, will be longing for You in the years to come........Promise......
2006-11-23 13:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers but not roses, that way it shows that you are thinking about her but you are not being clingy.
2006-11-23 13:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely send her flowers,but not red or pink...The significance of there color will show a different intention...Also,do not send them to commemorate making love to her....Send them just because...Misconceptions lead to misunderstandings...Keep you intentions pure and good luck
2006-11-23 13:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Frank D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that I would love to recieve flowers. I would think it was sweet and it would be nice to know that a man valued our first time together.
2006-11-23 13:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Julie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers if she thinks you are too clingy, then hell send them to me.
2006-11-23 13:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋