how do i know if he likes me?

Question

I really like this guy. He is really shy and we talk online all the time, but never really in school. We seem to like the same things and I really enjoy talking to him. I want to become friends with him before anything happens. But the problem is nothing seems to be happening. what do i do?

Answer 1

Flirt just not to hard

Answer 2

Here are two lists out of my black book!
How you get a guy to like you!
1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones
2. Smile a LOT
3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him
4. Be REALLY nice
5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser")
6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that)
7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it)
8. Be yourself!
9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care)
10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-)
12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that?
13. Say hi to him in the hallways
14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his!
14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues!
15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones)
16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying)
17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful*
18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa
19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!)
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Some expectations of a good boyfriend Share
12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
9) Holds you close when your cold.
8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.
4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)

Answer 3

Wow, I am in the same situation. I am sure he likes you too, but as you said, he is too shy to go where you are and ask you out. Set up a meeting, a place after school, ask him what can you two do together, go see a movie or something like that. I am sure he will feel better and more confortable if you talk to him in person.

Answer 4

If you really like him, and he's on the shy side, its time for you to make a move in his direction. You don't have to over do it, just do something simple, like stop at his locker, and say hi to him. You can even leave him a little note, or just something to get the ball rolling. If he's shy, he will warm up to you, but you have to break that little barrier first. When you get him talking to you, play it cool, and things will work out for the both of you.

Answer 5

Well, one way to find out if a guy likes you, is to ask him. You just talk about some general things and then just ask, "do you like me?" And wait for the answer, don't qualify it, or add additional stuff, just ask and then shut up and wait. He might say something like "yeah, sure I like you!" or maybe "I like you as a friend" or whatever. In any case it will be an answer. Alot of times, just saying to a guy that you LIKE them, gets them interested in you, as long as you aren't pushy about it and just sort of let it out like "Gee I think you are cute! I think I like you" They seem to find this an easy way to get in like with someone, because most boys are kinda shy when starting to like girls. They are also very afraid to say anything in case the girl evaporates and doesn't like them. That fear sometimes causes them to be reluctant to say anything. But its hard to resist someone who likes you first. So go ahead, take a chance. Worst that could happen is he says no, but whats the chance of that? Pretty slim since you know he likes you online. So ask him online......lightly and nicely. Good luck my dear!

Answer 6

I think that you should totally tell this guy you like him, maybe ask him out. You don't have to stick to the traditional "guy asks girl out" If you want to, go for it. He is shy, so get to know him better, and flirt. If he flirts back thats a good sign to move on, and maybe ask him out.

Answer 7

he will look at you Alot .if not build up the guts to go ask him why or just try to think of a easy and smooth conversation. it may seem hard and stressful to do but if you dont you might just regret not doing it for a very long time

Answer 8

Keep talking to him..tell him how u feel and see how he reacts to that.
He is probably just shy and frightened to make a move in case it spoils the friendship u have...if he knows how u feel he will be less shy about expressing his feelings.

Answer 9

Walk up to him at school and slip him a note, with a smile. On the note ask him if he wants to go out to eat sometime soon with you.

Answer 10

Ask him if you to are really friends or if ur just talking buddies first.
Then you guys can progress over time